I was always curios and i thought i would ask. Is it the same as the way i feel for a girl? I mean i was noticing the opposite sex since the second i came out the wound. I mean, are gay people born like this?
im noone to judge, so can i know?
2007-06-19 12:44:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well it like this you might as well be straight....reason? the same problems... only one exception...the person is the same sex and therefore not as comfortable as the opposite sex..I mean the gay relationships are atypical of hetero sexual, in the role playing sense... soooo if your going to have the same problems you might as well just have heterosexual relations....my opinion is pot and other drugs play a big role in "freelove" that leads to homosexuality...ie lowered inhibition
jeb
2007-06-19 12:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by atomic49er 3 · 1⤊ 5⤋
I am sure all the same emotions and feelings you have for a girl, gays have this also, they are normal people, who have different views on love and sex. I think it might be a special gene that they possess. They have been persecuted for so many years. Give it a break it's none of our business. Oh by the way I am a straight mom and grand mother and I have known lots of gays in my lifetime and they make great friends and neighbors.
2007-06-19 22:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by TINKERBELLE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the best possible short answer is that it is EXACTLY the same as the way you feel for a girl!
At least for gay guys. Lesbians, like str8 women, tend to be less visual and more emotional than males like you and me are. But both emotion and the senses seem to be involved to some degree for all of us. Gays in love are just as tender, ridiculous, selfless, crazy, and everything else as str8s are. Gay guys in lust are usually even MORE horndogs than str8s are, but that's only because they can reasonably expect the other guy to be the same way!
Not everybody starts as young as you claim to have, tho. For instance, I knew what kind of bodies I was interested in as soon as I got interested in bodies, maybe in 6th or 7th grade--but not in early grade school. And there are plenty of gay guys who state that it took them years to understand their sexuality--and, no, I do NOT believe all of them were in denial. (Some of them were, and will say so. But not all.)
As for being born "like this": It apparently seems that way to everybody! Which is why the usual response to those who claim otherwise is, "Okay, when did *you* decide to be str8?"
P.S. Spell-check is indeed a good thing, but it would have happily passed "wound" for where you presumably meant "womb." (Even so, it would have been courteous 4 u to make the other corrections that it would have recommended.)
2007-06-19 20:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a funny question. At my job I know a guy who is very straight and one minute he'll be telling me about a "sexy chick" he just saw. Some time later I'll notice a hot guy....all I know is that all men are visual and horny creatures. In that way, all men are the same. Just think the excitement you feel for a girl is replicated for gay men who see a guy....
2007-06-19 19:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by boxjellÿ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One guy asked me why it is that I like girls, and I told him, "For the same reason that you like girls. That's just the way it is and how I am."
So when someone is gay, it's the same feeling as you being straight. You are attracted to someone, you get to love that one special person, things of that sort.
2007-06-19 22:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gays and Straights are exactly the same except that gays like there same sex and straight people dont.but thank you for asking in a nice way.
2007-06-19 20:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by ....... 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's not that different than you, bro'. How you think about girls, is exactly how I think about guys.
I get phyically aroused. I get emotionally attached. I want,...no, I YEARN to be with that person. the same as you are when you see a girl that you just gotta have.
We are the same in every other way. It really is such an unimportant thing.
2007-06-19 20:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
since you came out the wound huh?
If you think you came out of a wound then you are too young or to ignorant to be thinking about sex with ANYONE
2007-06-19 19:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tissa 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I feel good to be gay, wouldn't like it any other way.
2007-06-20 20:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the exact same kinds of fealings except it's for guys not girls. I just never had anything for females.
2007-06-19 19:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋