best way to coming out to somebody who you have a crush on?

Question

what is the best way i can come out as a bisexual to a same gender crush without telling them i have a crush on them, but making it also easy for them to understand as a friend?

i know it kinda sounds stupid, but im also in high school.

and if it helps, i don't expect a negative reaction, but probably an incredibly awkward one.

first answer - there is nobody really to refer to, honest. i mean, i'm not openly bisexual in school and there are others who are openly lesbian and bisexual (girls), but nobody i can really refer to.

Answer 1

why dont you ask her if she ever had sexual experience if she ever thought abut havin sexual experience with girl or have ever looked at another girl, ask if she knows or what she knows about sexuality, is she lesbian bi, maybe if you know any of other lesbians or bisexuals in school who you know are comfortable with sexuality maybe you chat to them about how you feel, say you havnt come out to anyone yet ask them how they came out if they fount it easy, ask them what reactions were that you were thinking of telling a friend who you liked that you would appreciate if they kept it to themselves but you could benefit from some advice and help, you may not even know your sexuality dont put too much presure on yourself just have some fun, if your friend is a friend, you dont have to tell her you like her she would understand, good luck

Answer 2

if you are already friends with him/her, then just don't tell him/her so quick. just be cool first then tell him/her how you feel about them in a couple of weeks or months. if you were already friends long ago, then you can start now or you can wait. i dont know if this helps cuz the question is kind of confusing though. im bisexual too, and i have a crush on my friend, but i never asked him what i feel about him yet, cuz im not ready. im in highschool student also. my friend (who is also bi) told my other friend (who is straight) that he likes him, and it didn't go out so well. first they were friends and now they are starting to not get along anymore since that.

Answer 3

ask a hypothetical question to your friend. Or refer to someone you know that is gay and say something to the affect of "i think i may be that way." or just be honest.
Also saying something about a dream and how it felt so real and right, you know what i mean?

Answer 4

May just tell them and see what happens it is a easer for a female to come out than a male .

Answer 5

yes, it is all the more difficult in High School. Well, let her know that when you are with a guy you like gentle sex, but with a girl you enjoy it a bit more rough then ask.....do you want me to rough you up a bit?

Answer 6

I did that, and I told them I liked them, and suffice it to say that we aren't friends anymore.

Answer 7

just be honest

Answer 8

just do it