I can start having "it" with guys if I want to... I chose, I wasn't born straight or gay, it is my choise...
2007-06-20 00:07:45 · 38 answers · asked by K Assiri 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not "bi"!!!
Why did everyone miss the point when I said "I choose"!!! I didn't say "I want"!!!
What I meant is I can start having "it" with guys if I want to but I don't...
2007-06-20 00:33:33 · update #1
Khalid, I personally think you REALLY have lost it!
If you are "straight" then why are you so confused?
You visit wierd Islamic websites to watch movies. You say your straight, but you talk 2 voices!
I minute your muslim and the next minute you think you can "choose" to be gay.
My staright talk is, in Islam being gay is not allowed. Neither is is in certian christianity groups and jewdaism etc. which is why churches won't allow gay marriages to take place.
So if your a muslim and you "choose" to be gay then, you might as well go and have sex befor marriage or drink alcohol because this is what you can "choose" to do.
Whats the point telling people to watch links where stoning has taken place, then talk rubbish about choosing to be gay!
You are a confused teenager who I think is still looking for the right or decent path to whatever your religion is!
2007-06-20 23:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by lovelylaura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you define as being "straight" and being "gay".
If your definition of being gay means to have sex with another member of your own gender, then that doesn't make you gay. Anyone is capable of having sex with any gender. The physiological act of sex is only a part of one's sexual identity. A gay male is more than capable of having sex with a woman - sometimes after "training" or "conditioning". This doesn't mean they are no longer gay.
Sexual orientation has complexities about it, and whilst a gay person is capable of having straight sex - they lack the "feeling of attraction" or "complexities" of a heterosexual person. The same applies in reverse if a straight person tried to have gay sex.
A gay person is attracted sexually, romantically and emotionally to persons of their own gender. A straight person is attracted to the opposite gender only whilst a bisexual person is attracted to both genders (not necessarily equally)
2007-06-20 08:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by nemesis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
?? How do you know it was your choice? If you chose it, then surely that's part of your make-up? I choose to buy a lot of pink clothes... But I think it's part of my make-up that I like them. Sounds like you're bi. But if you choose to have sex with guys, just because you want to prove a point, then you are straight.
2007-06-20 00:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by rollacoasta 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your sadly deluded. The only thing you have revealed here is that your bisexual.
Yes, you may be able to 'choose' a man or a woman, but sooner or later, you will meet someone your really attracted to, and then, if someone asked you to 'choose' someone else then you wouldnt be able to.
You cannot possibly choose who to be attracted to, and who to fall in love with, therefore its is also impossible for you to choose your sexuality.. its there, or it isnt. In everyone.
2007-06-20 00:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This kid keeps asking stupid questions. I don't know what the point of this one is. Hey kid, are you trying to say that your religion is superior to other people's because you can choose to be gay if you want? Anyone can choose to be straight or gay! Of course we all know that you can choose to be gay. So if you just came to the realizations that you can blast some dude or a girl, welcome to the world of the obvious: so can the rest of us!!!
2007-06-20 09:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by theartist formerly known as lulz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can be phsically striaght but that doesnt mean i am straight in my mind. Meaning i could sleep with a guy, however i am not even remotley actracled to him (sorry straight guys)
Being gay isn't about sex it's about love.
2007-06-20 00:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by Magic D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you can choose the sexual activity that you get involved in, but not your sexuality, that's deeper within your psyche. Did we miss something, within your question?
Good luck! Rob
2007-06-20 11:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rob E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask this question on the gay section? Talk to your straight male friends and see if the same choices are available to them lol.
2007-06-20 00:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by MrCute 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
people don't choose to be gay,just like people don't choose to be mentally ill.Oh ......and by the way I detest that word 'gay' being used by a bunch of fudge packers
2007-06-20 04:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you worry about such issues when you grow up and move out of your mum's house. I don't think she would be happy with you bringing guys home.
2007-06-20 01:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by LillyB 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋