2007-06-19 20:37:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think so. There is nothing wrong with curiosity and that doesn't mean you are a lesbian. I think you are just curious and that is natural.
2007-06-19 20:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hippie C 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Good question.
It is a subjective issue though. There is a big difference between wondering and wandering.
I think most people are very curious as to what others think and feel. Also our emotions are not always ours to control.
Some people on this planet are truly beautiful, a beauty we sense rather than see and this transcends 'normal' feelings.
So someone who would not normally consider same sex relationships finds themselves drawn to someone inexplicably, this can be very disturbing for the person concerned.
Many of the men who answered yes probably have a fantasy about two women. but put to them the question in relation to have they ever wondered about same gender sex and you will get a very different reaction.
In this I don't think you can hope to get a considered response on here, but I do wonder whether you have asked this out of a sense of mischief?
2007-06-19 22:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by noeusuperstate 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've wondered about it but not dwelled on it, because the thought didn't hold any appeal for me.
But I would say it's completely natural. I'd also say if you find yourself wondering about it alot and the thought does appeal to you then you may not be as straight as you claim you are, and if not it may be worth exploring the thought further, because you may be bi.
You may then open up a whole world of satisfying relationships to yourself.
Just don't deny who you are because the rest of society may not approve.
Go with the flow. Don't rush into anything and don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing.
Be happy.
Louise
2007-06-19 23:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Louise H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all especially at puberty go through the same thing even if it comes to mind for a split second. we think about what its like with the same sex. Its just part of growing up. and it doesnt mean a thing. you can like this girl today and it be gone tomorrow. I really believe that we are all born inherently bisexual and as we grow and start to experiment thats when we find out what we are more comfortable with. I also believe love is blind we can fall in love with the person the individual because of there qualities and their traits and it realy doesnt matter whats between their legs you like what you like.And a little experimentation never hurt anyone and just because you do doesnt mean your gay. When you have meaningful realtionships wether it be with a man or a woman and you are intimate you will know by whom you feel most comfortable with and you may feel it with both but you are to young to stress yourself just have fun and go with the flow eventually you will figure things out and make it through like the rest of us.
2007-06-19 20:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by karayzeebutieful 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Completely okay. I just wish the "straight" girl at work that I have a crush on wondered this same thing.
2007-06-19 20:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by indrep33 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no it is completely normal. many people wonder what it would be like to be intimate with someone of the same sex but would never admit it out loud.
no one is totally 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual if they are truly honest with themselves. i'm not saying everyone would act on it, just that they think about it.
2007-06-19 20:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is so natural... just look at how most animals survive without males. And it is known for two male animals as well as females to shack up.
2007-06-20 01:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Darling but let it ruin your real every world...kids, husbands, Moms, dads...you get the drift. I suggest a trip fro just the girls. Never let on . Once again NEVER LET ON.
If other women com they must never know at this junction.
New companion are a harder to find and they usually want payment.
It is important that you not be in such a big hurry
Good luck, my friend
2007-06-19 20:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my eyes, it's the most natural thing on this earth.
2007-06-19 21:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is normal. It's just a stage. It's also part of being open minded. Thinking and doing are very different. If they were the same, I would be in jail for assault or something.
2007-06-19 20:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds like a healthy natural inquisitive mind at work. people wonder about many many things. it doesn't mean to say they actually do it.
2007-06-20 00:52:58 · answer #11 · answered by belickcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋