My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years (lived together for almost 2). A few nights ago, I came home and could tell something was up. Eventually I got him to talk and he said (crying) that he no longer found me attractive. Ouch. What's worse is he was late for work and had to run out the door after saying that. I went out with a friend to keep my mind off of things, and when I came back home, I brought the conversation back to life, at which point he insisted he still loves me dearly but is no longer attracted to me... and that sex is not enjoyable for him anymore. Ouch again. He cried. I cried. And now, things are just weird. We both love eachother dearly, and we want to work it out, but I have no idea where to begin. How do I made myself more attractive? Should I even try? How do I recover my self-esteem after a blow like that? All kinds of questions! I'm so confused (and it doesn't help that it's FINALS week lol)
2006-12-14
14:00:45
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