have you ever thought about a sex change?

Question

I have always felt that i was a women trapped in a mans body and do not know what to do about it as i live my life in a male environment both at work and at home

I am only attracted to females and have never been intrested in men

Answer 1

Rhonda, firstly let me say, don;t isten to half the biggoted nonsense that gets offered here under tha guise of a considered "answer". I know exactly how you feel, you are not alone and there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Physical attraction has nothing, NOTHING at all to do with gender identity, If you are a woman, then that is what you are, whatever your body may appear externally. As for attraction to women, so what? Hasn't anybody ever heard of a lesbian? People will always offer you "advice" or threats which really disguise their own ignorance and bigotry.
There is now evidence emerging that gender identity is a biological phenomenon and not related necessarily to your physical sex. It's not your fault, and it isn't likely to go away either. You can find peace with yourself though, it is possible to change your sex.
This is all very brief but if you would like to know more, get in touch.

Answer 2

Yes all the time. It started when I was 14 my friend Gary Shaw asked me to give him a b.j. I told him hell no! (but inside I really felt that I was a girl and I did want to go down on him) I told him that the only way I would give him a b.j. was if I was a real girl or if I was dressed as a girl. Well he gave me some of his older sisters clothes witch I gladly put on as fast as I could and I gave him his first b.j. I was his secret girl friend for the next 3 years. I'm 54 now and have allways belived that I am female on the inside and have allways dressed and go out as a woman. I feel better about myself dressed as a female and love it when men find me sexy. I hope to some day have the sex change opperation.

I have never gone to bed with a man dressed as a man. I am very subbmissive and want my man to take the lead roll. I normally don't let or want my lover to suck on my sissy clit. Like I said I wish and have thought about just cutting it off but I could never do tjhat.

I hope some day some how I will finnaly have a real Pussy. I dream about finding Mr. right and he gets me the opperation and we live happy for the rest of our live together. Him as my man and me as his wife,slut,whore,Maid and sex toy.

Answer 3

If you like women, though, really weigh the pros and cons of getting a sex change!

You could just crossdress, or regularly visit someplace where you can have a female persona? And since you like girls, some chicks dig that stuff.

There actually are people who want to get a sex change but are attracted to the opposite sex already. I don't understand it myself but I'm friends with one. I think it's gender identity disorder or something. Just do lots of reasearch on everything! Look up mtf or m2f stuff, and join communities where you can talk about it freely. I don't really think Yahoo is the best place for this :/

Answer 4

I did. But then I had some hot M2M sex. Love yourself the way you are. Life is about accepting yourself. I really think having a sex change is going too far. Then you still won't really be a girl; Just some surgeon's version of one. It's just like those people who are addicted to plastic surgery. The more they get the less satisfied they are. They will only love themselves when they get this surgery or that surgery... It never stops. Start now by accepting and loving yourself!

Answer 5

Never have... but if you really are not happy then you can get one I guess. But think about the consequences, people will sort of be shocked. I don't mean it bad, but one of my friends did have one done and when he became a she... it was uh I can't really even describe how kind of 'whoa' it was. Just think long and hard about it, some people may not accept you after this, and if they do it may be really hard for them to act the same. You may even consider starting a new life somewhere. But as I said earlier, its all up to you, and only you can make the right choice.

Answer 6

i love being a guy so i would never get one. but i have though about how weired it would be to get one but i think about a lot of random things. yahoo is not a good place for self discovery of the magnitude you are talking about. there a lot of support groups and some therapists that specializes in gender identity. it will take you a long time to decide because there is a lot of stuff to consider. i hope the best for you and i hope that you figure out what you want.

Answer 7

i imagine alot but not all people have had it cross their minds at one time or another. i also imagine the majority thought against the idea as well since of the consequences being so stark and dramatic as a result of the decision to go ahead all through the process aqs well. i myself have wondered how life would have been so yes it crossed my mind long ago but never went farther than that.

Answer 8

Never. But in your case change it a beautiful women will be the only choice it seems. go ahead and see the fun of attraction from your old pals.

Answer 9

I've thought about it, and started to take steps towards getting it. Some of these folks talk about being proud of who you are, but focus on 'what' you are instead. Being a male is what I am, not who I am; and in my case at least, accepting who I am means changing what I am.

Answer 10

I used to... I then did a lot of studying on transgenderism, and decided it was not me. I would suggest looking up a transgender counselor in your area to sit down and talk with. It is a long and complicated process, and deserves a lot of attention, thought and work before you start taking steps down that road.