does anyone know how to stop rumors about being gay espeicly in a black highschool..becouse some people started a rumor saying i was gay...and everone loves to here bout someone being gay in der school...so da rumor isnt going away....can someon help out??????
2006-12-14 13:42:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Find out if it was a guy that started the rumor. If it was, walk up to him in front of the most people possible and give him a big wet sloppy kiss. Then thank him loudly for coming out with you. Then when he tries to fight you kick his azzzzzzzzz!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 13:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
So does this mean you are a friend of someone who actually IS gay and therefore you are gay by association? For those others who you want to tell, either they believe you or they do not. Truth is, if they KNEW you, they would know the answer. You do not have to clear the air about having an intimate, non-sexual relationship. She is your friend (assumption) and you wanting to put on the brakes to clear any rumor could be hurtful by itself. You are wanting to cease this horrible rumor and you need to stop, take a deep breath and realize that your reaction to the mention of your being gay is showing that it must be a bad horrible thing to be gay. It's not. Maybe it is something that comes with maturity that at a particular time in your life you just don't give a rats a$$ about what other people think.
2016-03-29 07:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is get a girlfriend.
I'm not saying that the rumors are in any way your fault. It is probably just kids being mean - believe me I know how mean they can be. On the off chance that there is a reason for the rumors - take an honest look at yourself. Are you effeminate? Look at your wardrobe - do you dress "gay"? You can't stop what people are saying now but maybe, you can prove them wrong. I know it's hard, especially in high school but if you are not gay try not to let the rumors bother you, live your life. Although it seems like it high school does not last forever and once it is over all those things that seem such a big deal turn out to be nothing and nobody cares about all that stuff.
2006-12-14 13:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by PRS 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unfortunately, my dear there is not much you can do to stop people from spreading rumors... My suggestion is to be yourself...I wouldn't even entertain the idea that people are talking about you. Only respond if someone point blank asks you...then tell the the truth. Do well in school and forget about them...Soon you will be in college pursuing your real life and non of this BS will matter anymore. I am sure you have a group of friends that you hang around right?! Continue to do that for support...Good Luck!
2006-12-14 13:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the rumors are out there so I suggest going on about your business at school and completely ignoring the jib-jab. I understand that that may be hard to do, but as long as you still have your friends and associates, then really that's all you should be concerned about. The rumors will fade away.
2006-12-14 13:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take out a 10-line advertisement in the "Messages" section of your metropolitan newspaper telling everyone you love women and you are hosting an orgie at Hugh Hefner's Playboy Mansion next Saturday night.
2006-12-14 14:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you holler loud that you are not gay - they will be sure you are.
Just live your life - this too shall pass. You are the person to be picked on this week - someone else next week. People just love to talk!
2006-12-14 13:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
like I did once when I was young and had long hair and his guy said heh your a queer since you have long hair, and I said sure, I will suck you off. he stood there in the parking lot with his pants down i got on the ground and came up with my knee and kneed him in his balls very very hard.noone ever said anything to me again about being queer.prehaps you should try this with the next guy who calls you queer .Good luck.
2006-12-14 14:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it may seem to be, you just need to ignore their b-s. Be yourself, and don't worry what other people think about you. You're giving idiots way too much control over your life!!
2006-12-14 14:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by FL LMT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get a boyfriend so they'll stop asking questions.
2006-12-14 20:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋