I have just came out of a long term serious relationship with my (same sex) partner. After much crying I have found myself back on the scene again. However, most women dont even think I am gay, my whole look, everything about me screams straight person. I know its a horrible cliche but I wear high heels and dresses and have long hair, and just get ignored, girls are always telling me i look way to girly, its starting to make me think they are right. I love punky different looking people as partners. I once asked my friends why the people I am attracted to never look twice at me and they answered with brutal honestly that I need to 'dyke it up'. Im so scared of changing the way I look to something completely different incase it doesnt suit my personality, but I cannot carry on going un noticed by everyone im attracted to. What should I do?
2006-12-01
00:52:34
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Sophie
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