Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - December 2006

i am not a feminist....and this question may not be very true in more liberal countries.....i think it's more applicable to conservative societies.....you know all those ads about being proud to be a virgin.....i know it may carry a message to prevent unwanted pregnancies, stds and all those......but somehow underlying it is about virginity....well, somehow i am nt too agreeable with all these celebrations of virginity...i am not saying that ppl should sleep around and...but i think the status of virginity is just overly emphasised....especially for women, esp in conservative societies.....i mean it's no biggie if a girl is a virgin or not....and i dun think it's wrong to lose it b4 marriage, it's just human's need if u know wot i mean......it shouldnt be an issue in the 1st place.....n when they say 'man would only marry a virgin', it's crap right, it's like woman is nothing but all about her virginity.....
what u guys think? especially those from conservative backgrnd....

2006-12-02 01:03:00 · 16 answers · asked by guedisg 1

I'm straight (you have no idea!), work in a creative profession where I am around allot of gay co-worker men. So naturally, I've become good friends with many of them. Problem is, seems that I'm so people friendly, that they all think that it's okay to hit on me constantly. As if my just being cool/friendly with them is a come on. Or maybe they can't tell the difference.

It's starting to make me feel like I'd just be better off acting like a phobe, trashing the friendships, and be left alone. Half the time I feel like they're laying office bets down on who can score me first. I find this a bit insulting. They ask for respect for who they are, and I've given it to them, but they won't respect me for who I am, and cut out the sh!t. It burns me up sometimes.

And no, it's not flattering! It's annoying and arrogant!

No different from some straight assuming that gays can be "healed".

If this crap goes on, I'll just ditch I guess. Any similar experiences?

2006-12-01 23:31:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 22:56:19 · 12 answers · asked by tat 1

details...?

2006-12-01 22:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by bradwissmueller 2

sexlless relationships, but with strong feelings

2006-12-01 22:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by bowneyes 1

I think Abstinence is the best way.

2006-12-01 21:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do we just become totally liberal on non discrimination just because we're gay and supposed to be that way?
I'll give an example of what I mean. My partner went out dressed in a kilt all the proper gear, looked the part,etc and we were refused admission into a bar on the grounds of 'You can't wear a dress in here' When a friend challenged this policy the doorman responded it was in case someone lifted up the 'skirt' and got a fright. This was a bar that we have frequented before and the 'gay' community is supposed to fight prejudice, yet they allow doorman like this to discriminate on the grounds of his own prejudices rather than a real threat to the security of the bar.

2006-12-01 20:56:11 · 4 answers · asked by waggy 6

2006-12-01 19:59:33 · 16 answers · asked by D 1

I commited myself to a guy whom i don't know who really he is. At first he is so caring and give a lot attention to me, i feel that i am special to him. we've got married and live together happily and now i am pregnant. I discover him that he is bi-sexual attract to his same sex. Help what i'm going to do? I love him my feeling to him is the same though i know already that he is bi-sexual. I'm afraid that one day he will leave me because he don't love me that all he wanted is his same sex not me his wife. I'm pragnant is there any posibility that our relationship will be save because of our coming baby?

2006-12-01 19:42:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do they die of AIDS or is homosexuality unhealthy and killing them off. It may sound like a joke but i have lived but im not trying to be rude. I have lived all over america and europe and never have i come across elderly gay people/couples.

2006-12-01 19:09:59 · 24 answers · asked by Yo Yo Ma 1

do they insist on ignoring my completely natural lifestyle?
I repeat I have no quams with them.

2006-12-01 18:06:30 · 14 answers · asked by Namaste 4

Not excactly what but generally what like just generally or can everybody do that?

2006-12-01 17:51:03 · 15 answers · asked by Tyler1990Cali 2

2006-12-01 17:41:05 · 10 answers · asked by jackie 1

and why are some of them lesbians,gays,bisexual?

2006-12-01 17:21:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm studying to be a practical nurse and i want to know what people think about male practical nurses.By the way i'm not gay.

2006-12-01 17:13:52 · 23 answers · asked by niohogr 1

i know i am straight but my friend shes a girl but she is gay and lateiy we have been hanging out more and gettin closer {friend wise} but i feel like i have feelings for her but ima goin wit her brother

2006-12-01 17:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 17:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 17:01:01 · 4 answers · asked by annie 3

okay im going threw a big problem right now, i don't know if i am lesbian or just bi?? and its killing me to know bcs ive noticed for awhile now that i find myself more attracted to girls better than guys but girls turn me on but guys just don't i dont really find them attractive but only about 3% i do but the rest, i find myself liking girls instead of guys.
can anyone tell me if im lesbian or bisexual!!
please help me out here

2006-12-01 16:40:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't get how can a man NOT be attracted to the female form...all women are just so beautiful to me.

2006-12-01 16:38:08 · 29 answers · asked by Laughing Man Copycat 5

u see im a female and i us to like and go out with other females and everything and never have like guys but know i dont want to be with females any more and stuff but i still dont like guys so what should i do? do that mean im still gay are what am i straight but just dont like guys are what should i do for me to like guys well i really need yall help out there so if any of yall have and answer to my question please send them to me thank u all out there.

2006-12-01 16:33:17 · 11 answers · asked by lil-nono 1

I am a very sexually open woman. I love my boyfriend and I love pleasing him. I love giving head, watching pornos with him, making good use of hot wax and champagne.I love restraints and etc. Anyway some of my friends say i am nasty. I just like what I do. What do you think?

2006-12-01 16:26:21 · 25 answers · asked by peaches m 1

i'am black while i was at a store tonight two black young men came in and i was afraid sad to say it but i was and i know it is not right to judge every young man but i try not too so why?

2006-12-01 16:25:02 · 10 answers · asked by mishoney 4

i want that much answers!!! she has like 30,000.
arent i as famous and preeeeeeeety as her?
and i bet oprah cant gobble or do the turkey trot!!!
and how come she doesnt get reported for that question? if i asked a question like that i would get reported in the next 10 seconds.

2006-12-01 16:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-01 16:12:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

heres some information about him to help you decide
Hes never had a girlfriend
everygirl who has asked him out he said no
The only girl he has ever said was hot was one from his videogame
He does not check out girls and all his friends are guys
he is 13
He says hes not gay
I am not sure ?! is he are those signs what are the signs of someone who is gay I mean I want to know hes my friends brother.

2006-12-01 16:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl stares at me wierd in the halls like im lykin wat i c kind of way..i think shes diggin me and i think im diggin her...shuld i talk 2 her make a move or do nothing...help...

2006-12-01 15:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need a little help with that.

2006-12-01 15:44:30 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

which was asked or gone to wikipedia? makes you wonder why the asker didnt just go there themselves in the first place instead of going to the bother of posting a question here?

2006-12-01 15:38:10 · 15 answers · asked by mickey 5

listen i know your supposed to get lazy eye surgery when your really young.. and where the eye patch in stuff

but i dident do that when i was younh now i'm 14 is it still to late for surgery or the eye patch to get my eye normal??

pleasee let me know!!

2006-12-01 15:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by danny b 1