i've been wodering this all my life...why is it different when a girl asks a guy out? and why are girls called sluts when guys are just called players for most of the time?
2006-12-14 13:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by The Taste U can See 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Its called sexism. Girls have never really had it fair anywhere.
2006-12-14 13:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by savana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as whether the girl asks the guy or visa-versa, I don't think that has anything to do with whether a girl is a s.lut or a guy is a player. Also, both guys and girls can be s.luts, and both can be players, and you could be both a s.lut and a player at the same time too. A s.lut is someone who gives sexual favors in exchange for something material, like money or a nice dinner date. It does not mean someone who has had sex with many people is automatically a s.lut- it's the reason they do it. A player is someone who "plays" his/her partners, usually meaning either they date other people behind their partner's back or they pretend to really want a meaningful relationship just to get into the other person's pants. Being a player or s.lut has nothing to do with gender- it has to do with attitude & morals (or lack of them).
2006-12-14 13:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by BabyBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
society has viewed things the same way for many years.. heck, centuries!
change in society has to be slow and gradual.. i can only hope that i will live to see the day when men and women can truly be treated as equals with absolutely no discriminating or double standards.
as far as asking out on dates, i think it's becoming more common for girls to do the asking.
but the sluts vs studs is certainly a double standard..
i think the politically correct term would be "Sexually active on a casual basis with strangers" but anyway, if this is the sexual lifestyle you chose, then go for it, and don't be ashamed by what society tells you is right or wrong. be yourself and enjoy life!
2006-12-14 13:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called life
2006-12-14 13:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people who say this are pigs and think women should wait for a guy to come calling. screw that, if you like a guy go for it before someone else gets him. you may save him alot of trouble by getting the right girl the first time.
2006-12-14 19:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's our society's rules...they think that males have to be dominant and always take initiative while the girls just sit back and giggle and act stupid. I agree...it is sexism.>_
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It relies upon on the guy, because of the fact the guy would desire to of stated that he will pass out with the lady because of the fact she asked. yet whilst the boy incredibly had to pass out with the lady and she or he asked no longer something is distinctive in me eyes.
2016-10-05 08:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by armiso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy kinda thing!....actually it's just an example of sexism.
2006-12-14 14:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys should ask the girls about this thing...
2006-12-14 13:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by beauty mirna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
old fashioned views, but i think one day they will change. i can't wait for the yr 3005. it will be great
2006-12-14 13:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ron N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋