Its not like I wanna be physically attracted to boys, I just am. Wish there was a switch that could make this stop
2006-12-14 11:29:48 · 22 answers · asked by Kj 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What do u mean ur physically attracted to boys? Do u mean that u can look at a guy and think and say he's hot, but not have sex with him; or do u mean that all u want from a guy is sex; but u want a meaningful relationship with depth as well as a sexual one with a girl?
If it's the second one, maybe ur just bi curious. It still means ur gay, but ur more bi. Besides, most bi-sexuals usually prefer one sex over the other anyway. I'd explore ur longing lust first. Then u'll know if it's for u, or if it's a phase or something. It's better than going all brokeback mountain, and cheating on ur gf/wife later on in life.
2006-12-14 11:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, its easy to be attracted to any person really. I mean, as long as your not getting an any desires or anything, I think you're fine. For a while, I thought I was bi, because I found other girls to be attractive and whatnot, but I wasn't sexually attracted and I wasn't interested in a relationship with them. Perhaps this is the case with you.
2006-12-14 11:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by tanj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no switch...just as it is when you are "grown-up", you have to think things through, make the best choice you can at the time, and then learn from the choices you make. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to both sexes. Just think...you have double the chances of finding your perfect mate!
2006-12-14 11:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by tdcashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a huge deal, you could just be curious.
But you could be bi-sexual. People make it out to be such a bad thing but it's not.
People just think you have a choice about being bi, but you don't. Not with people like them refusing to accept them.
Just clear your mind. Go for people who you are attracted to. If they're attracted to you too.
2006-12-14 11:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by slanderer of names 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going thru this phase too.
society has taught us that male-female relationships are about love but male-male relationships are only about sex.
this is probably why your mind is playing tricks on you..
nothing wrong with being attracted to both. i think although most would never admit it, many people have these "curiousities" at some point in their lives. some act them out in real life.
try not to worry about labelling yourself.. and take serious time to think about what you want to do and/or try out in your life
2006-12-14 11:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It means that you are young, figuring things out, coming into your sexuality and one of the many many people who are attracted to both sexes. Why hate yourself for it? Instead, why don't you try to figure out exactly what it is that attracts you toother boys?
Fighting and hating who you are will only make you miserable.
2006-12-14 11:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! Guys are awesome and cool. They are your best buds and you should be physically attracted to them. I mean I'm attracted to my friends but I don't like them. My attraction is like eg: OMG their freestyle is perfect.
Your attraction maybe physical or you could just be admiring them.
2006-12-14 11:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make it stop. Just accept who you are. I am TransGender, and accepted that along time ago. I like both boys and girls. When i first started noticing guys and got arroused it startled me, and i was scared. But then i realised that fighting it did no good, and i acceped it.
2006-12-14 12:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by rjbeaman2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could give the right answer, but I can't try to think it over what really is your feeling probably you are just confused.
2006-12-14 11:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by linda c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something u can act on and become gay or just let the emotionss go and don't act on them and evenuallt they wont bother u like they do now
2006-12-14 12:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋