please help..
very long story short.
I cut ties with a couple of family members who were habitually,intentionally abusive for many years
I do/have forgiven them,I also learned through the good people here at r&s that forgiving someone doesnt mean you have to continue to associate with that person,or allow yourself to be further abused!!
well,it's been about a year,im just starting to heal emotionally from all the pain these people have caused me
now,out of the blue,I recieve this ridiculous letter
saying'' lets just let bygones be bygones''????WTF???
not even an apology or acknowledgement of all the damage they have done
this letter is just adding insult to injury,by referring to a lifetime of abuse as a ''bygone''
please,advise me on the best way to handle this?
btw..the best desicion I have ever made was to stop associating with them
for the first time in my lfe,I am finally starting to feel like a real human being who is worthy of respect&consideration
thanks!!
2007-12-18
09:47:53
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