My husband and I have been married for five years. We are both Christians, but he is more non-practicing than I am. His two best friends are recently divorced and now single. 4th of July they went to Hooter's for dinner and then to see Transformers. I am really very upset about him going to Hooter's, and in particular, because he lied about it. I am angry, resentful, and incredibly hurt. I have been crying myself to sleep almost every night since then. He has apologized over and over again. I am so upset because we have had numerous, numerous conversations about Hooter's and he knew how I felt. I feel just crushed and deceived. I have heard so many horror stories - about the girls practically flouncing their breasts in their face and the flirting they do for tips. This is a form of infidelity, to me. I have tried to give my pain to God, but it still hurts. I don't think I want to end my marriage, but I feel so dishonored. How can I/we get past this?
2007-07-08
11:39:28
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