I keep hearing "If you're over thirty, and you want to get married, you have to marry somebody with children !" . Is this true ? Aren't there people who wouldn't make a good stepparent ? Aren't some people much better off marrying a childless woman ? Can ANYBODY inspire children to be respectful and obedient ? Children won't obey somebody's rules if they don't want to, and they don't want to . Whenever I've been in charge of children, they've usually decided I'm somebody they don't have to obey, and I can't have that in my home . I'd have to have my rules obeyed and respected, and children aren't obedient and respectful . If Mom has a second husband, Dad has a second wife, and everybody's making rules for the kids, isn't that "too many cooks in the kitchen" ?
2007-10-02
08:43:23
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