Psychology - January 2007

IM DEPRESSED MY WIFE RAN OFF WITH HER PERSONAL TRAINER ,SHE IS TELLING LIES ABOUT ME, IM LONLEY WITHOUT MY FAMILY WE HAVE 3 KIDS THAT WE SHARE WEEK ON/OFF BUT SHE HAS TAKEN THEM AWAY FOR 2 WEEKS AND WONT LET THEM RING ME.IM NOT HAPPY AT WORK ,LIFE HAS LITTLE MEANING AT THE MOMENT I FEEL LIKE GOING TRAVELLING OVERSEAS FOR A LONG LONG TIME OR JUST ENDING IT THE ONLY THING STOPPING ME IS MY 3 WONDERFULL KIDS I CANT SEEM TO HANDLE THIS EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER.HER SOLICITERS ARE ALSO GIVING ME HELL OVER TINY TRIVIAL MATTERS AND HER PARENTS ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO TURN THE KIDS AWAY FROM ME AYEAR AGO I THOUGHT I WAS THE LUCKYEST MAN AROUND NOW I FEEL THE MOST ISOLATED AND DEPRESSED.IF TALKED TO A COUNCILLER AND HAVE DONE A DIVORCE COURSE THROUGH THE CHURCH BUT NOTHING IT SEEMS CAN CONTROLL MY EMOTIONAL STATE HELP

2007-01-11 20:15:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 20:03:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you ignore someone who did you wrong, you were very close to, but won't admit it...do you think that person will feel it and regret it and eventually in time realize how wrong they were and apologize...even in time? My ex did this to me and I defintily voiced myself and said some hurtful things and kept telling that person how wrong it was, on my part I will admit I couldn't let it go and reminded him how messed up he was. So, in a way, I never gave him time to miss me and realize I am not there anymore. Now I am really fed up and have closed myself off from this person. I gave him plenty of oppurtunities to confront me and genuinly apologize, I did get an apology, but dont feel it was sincere. and I feel I was taken advantage of. Maybe I let him take advantage of me too much? Threatning that I dont want him in my life anymore, but still making my presence? In the end, I just wanted a genuine apology, he was so compassionate when i knew him, how can someone turn this way??

2007-01-11 20:00:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-girlfriend left me 6 months ago and I have become really depressed. I am 23 years old and I am not happy anymore with the life that I am living. I am a compulsive gambler and I just don't know how to handle life's everyday events anymore.... Any advice?

2007-01-11 19:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

can't differentiate between the right choice and the wrong one and always thinks that he / she has made a mistake about a choice that he or she has picked.

2007-01-11 19:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by spankybee 2

How did you envision your life when you were younger? How does this vision compare to your current reality?

We all had dreams of what we were to become early on in life. How did these dreams compare to how you ended up?

2007-01-11 19:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by joshuademex 1

and agressive to your wife???

What is your opinion of a man who would constantly do this and not even want to acknowledge his behaviour as bad,or for that matter, at all, after he has settled down??

2007-01-11 19:34:41 · 6 answers · asked by Minx 7

2007-01-11 19:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by azeemwajid 1

what disorders are involved that we allow other people to enjoy our things in life that we have worked so hard far at no or little cost to them,

2007-01-11 19:25:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

*I got a similar question already, just want to make it simple this time.

2007-01-11 18:49:01 · 4 answers · asked by riot_akt 2

It's like when you're being verbally abused you don't care either unless it threatens your existence. And even in that case you're not mad at the person who's verbally or physically abusing you but the circumstances. Moreover, I can't enjoy nothing that I used to enjoy: neither music, nor reading, nor movies. I slept 10 hours last night. The first day it was 13 hours, the 2nd day - 12... It never happened before unless I was tired or smth.

Most importantly, enjoying smth. is still not as important as loving someone or caring about someone. Plus I completely lost sense of what good and evil is; actually, I know what they are but it's simply a memory now, knowledge but not the feeling itself. I went to church and they didn't give me the answer. What is happening? Is it temporary or for good? When will I CARE AGAIN?

2007-01-11 18:39:21 · 7 answers · asked by riot_akt 2

one must wait u ntil thr evening to see how splendid the day was. one cannot judge life until death

2007-01-11 18:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 18:12:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's a way of questioning our existence. I need serious and intelligent answers, evolving from deep and critical thinking. Not mere flat statements just for the sake of showing one's admiration and respect, or the converse for God.

Plase justify your answers, if possible.

Thanks for the pain to think about it and to answer my question.

Kev.

2007-01-11 18:03:09 · 12 answers · asked by Happy Dude 2

2007-01-11 17:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by JIMBUS_35 2

My friend died last summer by suicide, now i'm having recurring dreams about him. In my dreams I know he's dead...he's a ghost but, i've been telling him whats going on. Somebody plz help me

2007-01-11 17:44:33 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-11 17:38:05 · 19 answers · asked by Mili 5

seriously my mind never stops

2007-01-11 17:34:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and i cant shave it off - and so then i just go to work as normal and people have to respect me and then they all laugh in the bathroom.

2007-01-11 17:31:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yea I said it ... You pretend to bond then stab each other in the back. you have girls night out then get alone with 1 at a time and bich about the other ,but guys can fight then sit down and have a beer and be lifelong buds?

2007-01-11 17:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by SE7EN 2

As it ever occured to you that your the only real person here, and all the rest of these "people" at this site are fake ? That the rest of the human race has conspired against you, and that we just made up this program to laugh at you and your silly answers ? I don't mean to mess with your mind, but you might want to consider it. If your doing this to me, I want you know I'm on to your game. But then again I might just be the program talking.

2007-01-11 17:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by Count Acumen 5

can post all their private thoughts on an online blog for the whole world to see?

2007-01-11 17:19:33 · 12 answers · asked by boo 1

husband is in iraq and i'm living with my in-laws. i am attending college as of next week with 13 hours of classes towards my degree in psychology. i don't want to see a therapist for depression or insomnia issues. i pretty much don't want to leave the house at all or hang out with anyone - let alone talk to anyone but my husband. are there any other ways of coping with loneliness that don't require friends distracting the truth - that my husband is not here? yes, it sounds needy, but we have been married for a year now and have had separations due to him going to a new duty station and all. i'm nowhere near where the wives of his unit are - based in ft hood, so that option is out. i don't want distractions nor do i want a replacement. i'm quite a private person naturally and i tend to keep to myself, but i'm not sleeping well at night and i become frustrated so easily when people are around me wanting to hang out. please, don't be idiots and answer that i need a boy toy.

2007-01-11 17:13:34 · 2 answers · asked by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4

2007-01-11 17:13:18 · 25 answers · asked by Happy Dude 2

well here's my problem I cant stop over thinking. I over think on everything even on the little things. It makes me worry about what other people think of me and I get depressed over it. I want to change and take control of my life. I just have no control and I look at this one website every day and it has a daily horoscope and is always predicts my day for me. the thing is that if it tells me I have a bad day, I turn into a pessmit. I get more stressed out and depressed. I just cant seem to control of my life for the last couple of months. I've been getting getting less sleep and starting to eat less and my grades starting to fall. I have a family who loves me and been goood to everyone around me. I believe in god and havent done anything like alchol, drugs or been on a date. can someone help

2007-01-11 17:07:12 · 9 answers · asked by Joho 7

What in hell does this mean?


You and Me...
You know that We..

were always funny in a "car crash" sort of way.

2007-01-11 17:04:28 · 2 answers · asked by Kyle W 3

I am 17 and still in highschool. Soon I will be turning 18, graduating, probably going to college, and then getting a job that I'm not really interested in. I don't know how to pay bills, or write checks, I don't know anythign about politics, I'm not particularly GOOD at anything, really.

So my question is to any adults out there, before you went out to live on your own, did you know how to pay bills, write checks, how to get an apartment, how to pay for the apartment (literally how to pay for it, can you just give it to the owner). These are just a few examples, but just anytghing have to do on their own. I'm really tired and I didn't write this very well so I hope its not confusing. Thanks

2007-01-11 16:49:32 · 29 answers · asked by bob seesk 2

2007-01-11 16:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by enV_roni 1

For a few years now, I've always had to urging to just yell at some one "move!" I'm not the kind of person to get mad at people easily, and especially to not be rude, but for some reason I just want to be a ***** and yell "move" to someone whos in my way. I'm always kind and polite too. This sorta bothers me that I have this urge!!!! Of course I've never done this and would never, but for some reason I want to. WHY!?

2007-01-11 16:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a boy. My mind is always frustrated due to various reasons (most of them being depressing thoughts from the past). I have a girl who is my best friend. I love her very much. Thought I am cool most of the time but when I become angry on her, I lose control and abuse her verbally and hurt her a lot. When I am back to my senses, I feel guilty. I have already done it twice. Day before yesterday I did it for the third time and I really used very nasty words. She won't ever talk to me again. :( I read about anger management from net. I understood that I need help.

Should I meet a psychologist? Is there any good one in Bangalore, India?

Is there anything else I can do to control my behaviour during anger? Any good online resources to learn?

I have explained her everything and earnestly apologized. Is there anything I can do to get my friend back? Any girl here who can suggest me something? I really love her and I don't want to lose her. She is the nicest friend I ever had in my life.

2007-01-11 16:38:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous