2007-01-11 20:03:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
try to change your bad habits one by one
2007-01-11 20:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by elvisjohn 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to know what personality you have, your weakness areas and strength areas. Day by day, try to and work on eliminating the negatives and enhancing the positives. Another thing is, you have to ask yourself: what part of my personality I want to improve whether at the social, psycological, professional, or spiritual level. There are many things you can do to help improving your personality. For example, setting a model personality and try to follow it, surrounding yourself with good decipline and successful people from who you can learn, reading or attending specialized course or workshops can also help. All in all, be a good person and adopt positive attitudes in life! that's all that matters :)
2007-01-12 04:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are talking about "personality". The answer is simple. Follow these golden rules.
1. Learn to love yourself first. (Dont compare and despair!)
2. Watch your emotions. Keep off bad ones. They will hurt you (and incapacitate you), and are aimed by others to hurt you. So, brush off the bad feelings quickly, keep cool, joyful, and go about your business.
3. Decide on one major purpose every year, to go one level higher up in your own esteem. Plan well, go hammer and tongs at it. (Like, want to publish your first story, or making a nest of 100k in your kitty)
4. Be natural. Open. No airs. Ask boldly to explain, instead of posing that you have understood. (Communication must be doubly enforced, to avoid all doubts). So also, speak crisply without messing the words and meaning. Avoid all useless talk. (Try reading "Games People Play" by Dr. Eric Bern)
5. Hold your head high, and walk without a care in the world. (This will happen when you base your life on positive principles, and follow them with commitment and confidence).
So Sweetheart, wish you all the best.
2007-01-12 04:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Chandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your decision to improve your personality!
Though the word "person" has been used to mean body, personality is not only improvement of the body but the total effect of a man,s behaviour,conduct,values in life which gives him a unique stamp in society. You should do anything which helps you to grow positively and keep away from anything which wastes you in body or mind. And check your spellings.
2007-01-12 04:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by KNOW ALL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get up each morning, remind yourself that attitude is everything and be kinder than necessary; for everyone you meet is fighting a battle as you are! So live simply… Love generously…Care deeply…Speak kindly... Recognize and improve your limitations… Tolerate and accept the inadequacies of others… And leave the rest to the divine counsel you see fit!
2007-01-12 04:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nikolas S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person always knows what kind of behaviour hurts, or bothers him/her, and when someone does such a thing to you, you most certainly know how it feels.So, start by noting which behaviour has such an impact on you and then try not to behave in that manner when dealing with others; we often do to others what we do not like others to do us, sometimes we do not notice it.If we cancontrol our own actions, we are better persons,and if we know how to make other people's lives better then we are better persons too.
2007-01-12 06:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Tamara G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way, in my opinion, is to learn how to interact with others on a scale that allows you to control the outcome. For example, learn problem solving skills that allow you to solve a dispute before it becomes an argument. This is very valuable, and it is bound to improve your relationships with others.
2007-01-12 04:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is my experience.... I always tell myself that every minute in my life, I should learn to be better. While I'm feeling bad or sad, I tell to courage myself..... If I have free time, I'll start to analyze my own behavior and think of the result of my behavior. If there's something wrong with my behavior, I'll try to change it day by day.
Then, I also try to analyze others responses to my behavior....
2007-01-12 04:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by CeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by maintaining a healthy diet, Read newspapers,books magazines, journals to keep yourself updated on current affairs, so that you can hold intelligent conversation.Take care of your looks/Clothes etc. Try to be gracious to others & don't show off be slightly unassuming yet smart
2007-01-12 04:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Nanz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world to which each of us is exposed is very small.......to improve your personality.......u should really read books.......and first design what u are now.......and what personality do you what to become.......look at the gap......you will have the answer......that is u ll know what is to be done......and if you still cant do it.......only books can help you....
I suggest you the books written by ROBIN SHARMA.......
his website: www.robinsharma.com
2007-01-15 03:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean personality? Well be a little bit nicer to the people around you, and take a more positive outlook in life. =)
2007-01-12 04:10:50 · answer #11 · answered by d.t. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋