why do we allow other people to reap the benifits that we work so hard for?

Question

what disorders are involved that we allow other people to enjoy our things in life that we have worked so hard far at no or little cost to them,

Answer 1

One of the biggest failures of the human population is that we look at ourselves as being below everyone else. We can't see ourselves as being bright, intuitive, knowing, intelligent and so forth. In order to allow ourselves to reap the benefits we work so hard for we must realize that we deserve them. In order to deserve them then we must see ourselves as being the one who put forth the effort to gain the rewards we so richly deserve. Many times we think that we are being selfish when in fact we are being quite the opposite. In accepting our rewards we must be humble by rejecting the rewards we are being selfish in that we have denied our own capabilities and worthiness. Therefore by doing this, when someone else steps up and reaps our rewards and benefits we allow them because we see ourselves as undeserving. Each person must see themselves as having earned the achievement and we benefit from life and what's presented to us; happily taking what is deserved.

Answer 2

It's called sharing?
Unless you mean like social security and welfare and the like... in which case it's a cycle, because at some point you will be unable to work and will require those same benefits that you paid into. Unfortunately, yes, there are people that require them a little longer than you will... but providing for others when they need it is just an act of kindness and hopefully will be rewarded ultimately in some other gesture.

Answer 3

well, i was taught that it is meant to be that way. am i not correct to say that? it all depends on the value of your responsibility from which you were held accountable for it. besides, you already enjoyed the benefits that you deserved from working hard. nobody actually owes you anything.

all in all, your words doesn't make any sense at all.