Trust? Where to draw the line between your feelings and emotions vs. words and deciet display of trust?

Answer 1

the pain will promote growth in you...... you will be stronger... after the truth is exposed..... want the truth and it will show itself.....
most people do not want it........

Answer 2

Always trust your intuition. Your feelings come from your intuition--the sense that something is real or not. We all know the feeling; some of us acknowledge it quicker than others. Sometimes we deny our feelings out of other emotions like love. But in all likelihood if you feel this way, something is wrong. If words and communication cannot resolve it, you need to really examine how much of yourself and your feelings to maintain the relationship or end it. You might change your mind a few times, but eventually you will follow your emotions. Emotions are a important part of our overall IQ, so your brain is telling you something.

Of course, I am assuming you have good reason to feel this way. If you are feeling a general sense that everyone is deceitful than I urge you to renew your faith in people by talking to someone who really knows this stuff.

Talking to someone can also help you sort out the "where do I draw the line?" Listen to what others have to say with a grain of salt but take it in as a way to make your own healthy decision.

Answer 3

Trust is a hard thing for me. If you like someone your probably going to trust them easier even if they display signs of deciet in trust. Say you'd obviously trust your friend more than a councler or something. You should probably draw the line at the point of when putting your trust into someone is harmful to you (aka they tell someone your secret or something like that).

sorry that probably didnt answer your question very well...

Answer 4

No matter what other people do, say, or how they act keep your class. Don't change who you are, how you trust, because of how you may have been hurt. Don't let someone elses issues ruin your mood or your personality.

I don't trust automatically. I get to know someone and as I get to know them my trust either grows or I realize that this is a person I have to set boundaries with. I can say that I trust all of my friends. It wasn't that way when I was your age. When I was your age I trusted too easily. Because I always saw the good in people probably like you do. And you are right, emotions are so very tied in with trust.

Be you. A good kind trusting person. Build trust with people but keep and eye on your heart and protect it. It's the only one you have.

Answer 5

feelings, emotions, deceit come out as what? actions. you don't just feel things and not act on them, do you? you smile when you're happy, cry when you're sad, even write things down when you are all the above.

trust is something that is also an action. you can prove to someone you trust them in many ways. thing is, it is hard to draw the line between feelings/emotions and words and deceit because all of them effect eachother. when someone acts as though they are deceitful, that in itself will affect you and your feelings. this in itself causes the other person not to trust them because of the actions they are taking. trust is something that should never be given. it is to be earned. when you trust someone and they do something to damage that trust, it is hard to gain that back because actions can come up again. now, for the person who damaged that trust - they have a choice to make. if they feel that it was a stupid thing they did and learned from it, they will slowly begin to gain that person's trust again, but it is something that takes time.

i'm not sure if this cleared up the questions you had. hopefully.

Answer 6

You got to trust your gut.

You go, gurlfriend!

Et cetera.

Someone will be by later to give you a hug. He will then hand you my bill.