If you ignore someone who did you wrong, you were very close to, but won't admit it...do you think that person will feel it and regret it and eventually in time realize how wrong they were and apologize...even in time? My ex did this to me and I defintily voiced myself and said some hurtful things and kept telling that person how wrong it was, on my part I will admit I couldn't let it go and reminded him how messed up he was. So, in a way, I never gave him time to miss me and realize I am not there anymore. Now I am really fed up and have closed myself off from this person. I gave him plenty of oppurtunities to confront me and genuinly apologize, I did get an apology, but dont feel it was sincere. and I feel I was taken advantage of. Maybe I let him take advantage of me too much? Threatning that I dont want him in my life anymore, but still making my presence? In the end, I just wanted a genuine apology, he was so compassionate when i knew him, how can someone turn this way??
2007-01-11 20:00:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He thinks he has apologized and he's heard you say it's over. Therefore, he most likely has decided to move on and you will probably not hear from him.
I have a sneeking suspicion that you don't want this relationship to be over, and this requirement of a better apology is a way of staying in some sort of contact with him.
2007-01-11 23:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know for DEFINITE that he did wrong, and its too big a thing to forgive, then MOVE ON.
You deserve better.
2007-01-12 04:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by welllaners 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always forgive, and let others have a chance to forgive you.
:D
cheers.
2007-01-12 04:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by MI6 W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋