I used to live for other's approval. I would let what someone thought or felt choose my actions for me. Since I"ve decided to stop worrying about what others think, just do what I need to do any way I choose life has gotten better. I used to walk into a room and kinda hunch my shoulders and creep behind my wife because her family didn't care for me much. Now I lead my wife into a room, go where I want in the room, and help myself to the snacks and bar. The results have been mindblowing. All along, it's not that they didn't like me or think negatively, I just percieved it that way so they thought I didn't like them the way I acted around them. I created my own misery by worrying about how others thought of me. Don't do it, be yourself and let people think what they think. Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, and God bless.
2007-12-05
03:34:59
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wudbiser
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