Or do you believe that the woman is taken advantage of, unless there is commitment involved? The latter would indicate sex to be unequally pleasurable for men.
We are assuming both are consenting adults with free choices and there is no deception involved. It bothers me to view a woman who chose to have sex, being a "victim." Is it the actual experience that matters, or is it what "come out of it" that matters? The latter would mean women have sex, not because they enjoy having sex, but because they are looking to get something else in return afterwards, hence using sex as a tool. And if women are using sex as a tool to get something else in return, wouldn't that be manipulation? So, if an attempt to manipulate fails, you would be the victim?
Didn't the sexual liberation give us choices? How can we be victims, unless we are vicitims to our own bad decisions?
2007-12-05
08:08:18
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