We are so conscious about our looks but don’t you think, our loved one’s never care for them?

Answer 1

They do! It is a fact and Iam sorry if I am disappointing you by not saying the bolly/tolly/kollywood routine of 'what is there in looks ,it is all inthe heart' 'genuine love is not about looks but your feelings ' and all such (pseudo)poetic bromides. Loved ones need to be defined. Who do you mean by loved ones ? Parents? Siblings? Friends? Close relatives? Spouse? I dont want to make unpleasant elaborations ,but looks count with all of them. A beautiful child/ladyor a handsome gentleman is liked more in a family/ society/ interview/ educational institutions/work places/friends and it is very difficult to believe for many of us that they can also be criminals or anything similar. The loss /parting of a cute little thing /or handsome is rued with greater sorrow for a longer time . Many even feel they only have right to some delicate feelings and acheivements. That in some instances people tend to like /fall in love with those who are not good looking by general definition are having their own peculiar tastes and not because love is blind ,as we are often told. Even when we adore acheivers in different fields looks matter. Leander Paes and Mahesh Bhupathi were champion players in male tennis in which we lag behind by miles in terms of physical strength,stamina and training facilities.Their acheivements and rankings were considered improbable for Indians till they came along. They are not even known to some sport lovers but Sania Mirza who can't clear second rounds is worshipped by masses including those who know little about that game!Looks matter ,my friend, unfortunately, looks matter.

Answer 2

As a poem, you have some unusual grammar usage -- It should be consistent throughout. For the flow of a poem, capitalizing each line is passe; it was done in Jolly Olde England because the peasants couldn't read or read well; the only way they knew it was a poem is by the capitalization of the first letter of each line. If you go for the flow and don't capitalize each line, then be sure to use periods to indicate the end of one thought. It is a great idea, and may come to pass -- but I don't want to be here if it does because I prefer individuality. Last stanza throws me... and I'm not sure where to go from there. To me the whispers never end In judgement for my errors But When we stance and take our place <-- when capitalized We shine through our endeavours <-- also stance in line above -- stand? (another good place for a break, not needed, but I would) Lightening strikes once everyday But I plan to do what's right To take the blame, the hurt, the shame <--added comma My will is my advantage <-- should have period Confidence and living hope That others will join the plan To show the way, so that one day We all live out as one <-- I'd put a break here (with a period) It’s not that far The truth we seek Its all begins at home, <-- added a comma Inside the shell Our living hell Our conscious mind, abode To each and other It all takes shape That defines the one we are Open the gate to the secret place The one that hides your heart Let it breathe so it can feel Have empathy for forever <-- have eternal empathy -- it avoids the for for... of the line, yet you do get your alliteration. Let them in to share the act Of love for one another

Answer 3

Yes Gentleman, what you have said is true. I' m very conscious about my looks, as i feel my husband to be more handsome & that i'm not that equal to him.

So whenever i go with him i dress up neatly, but he doesn't care at all about how i look.

Answer 4

Oh yeah totally !! See no parents care about how beautiful the kid looks, to them their kid is always soo beautiful, to them their kid is the best. Ya ! We all care about our looks, every human being does and thats okay, but over obsession over looks is what is not GOod. Ya, the world probably might care about how u look and judge u based on ur looks, but ur parents, relatives or siblings never do. They see the beauty inside u, not outside. They see ur inside more than the outer beauty, but the world around can only see ur outer beauty. U r right though, they don't care how u look. They care about how u act, how good u r in heart, how u behave, how u present urself in front of others.

Sometimes my mom tell me to put on like a little bit of makeup or put on like eyeliner or something. It isn't because she doesn't like the way I look, it is because she knows that many people around this world see the outer beauty of u first than the inner beauty.

I mean take y/a for example. We don't know exactly how people here look like. But we are able to be good friends with them. I made many friends here in y/a and none of them know how I look. ANd that is why I changed my avatar to a sunshine picture. People here keep thinking that I looked like my avatar . HEHE So i changed it !! LOL

But, none of my friends here care about how I look. I guess they all care about how I behave and how I answer the questions.

I agree with u Gentleman !!!!!!!!!!! they don't care about how u look !!

Answer 5

I am conscious about my look, to look neat and good. I am not that beautiful but my husband says I look beautiful when I laugh. He doesn't like me being shabby. And I like to add my opinion of others beauty. I have experienced that if we love someone, even if they are no so good looking we like them and feel they are beautiful because more than outer beauty we look their inner beauty at the same time if we hate somebody even if they are very beautiful they look ugly because of their un-civilised behaviour.

Answer 6

the ground reality is looks matters for all.that is a bitter fact.in all walks of our life, one can observe this.some of us can say i am not a person of that type, but i hope it is not true. if you observe how you are looking at others (with a silent distain look on the face) and how others are looking at you. there is a strong belief among us that those who are pleasant looking can never be criminals. i happened to read a press news opinion poll, Osama looks handsome and one has to accept this on seeing his face if you go by face value! there is also a strong belief that person with bad looks can never be good. in hindu mythology, all devas(god like persons in heaven) are depicted handsome and all asuras (demons looking person in hell) are all in miserable looks. unfortunately we are all believing this. if we are giving importance to perphery,then we have to go a long way to understand what is love. if one is alert enough, you can easily differntiate real smile and contempt smile.

Answer 7

de@r gEntLe m@n,

Yes, our loved ones never ever care for their partners looks. And that is only called TRUE LOVE.

They don't care because they love the heart of person and not looks. Those who go on by looks are not real and true lovers. They are from those people who give beauty the 1st priority and heart the 2nd priority.

But i think those people never benefit. They leave the side of a person when they are in difficult times. But the one who loves a person truly and who doesn't care for looks will always be there beside the person in good times as well as in bad and difficult times.

So people go out and look out for loved ones and not the ones who go for beauty and looks....tc....sweet dreamz...bye...

*****bE kOoL...bUt dOn frEezE....*****.

Answer 8

Yes we are conscious about our looks. Our Parents love us and care for us inspite of our Looks. It is but natural.

Answer 9

it's normal to feel conscious of our looks as it is a natural desire of humans to feel acceptance.
as for me, I'm never conscious of how i look coz my loved ones love me for who i am. it's like this, I'd rather not be the best in my university but i should be the best son, the best brother, and the best friend..^_^

Answer 10

hi gentleman....

i'm very conscious about the way i look...i control what i eat, i exercise, drink my vitamins, etc....i think i basically want to look good because it makes me feel good....there's nothing like being complimented about how good i look despite my age....so personally, i want to look good for my own self-esteem....but i do want to look good for my partner too....i think how i look reflects also about how he takes care of me and my needs...in other words...i want to look good too, so that my husband's friends would think that he has made the right choice for a wife....i want to make him proud of me...besides i think looking good helps keep our relationship interesting and more exciting....but you're right...there are times that my husband fails to notice the new dress i bought...or maybe he purposefully dont notice because he doesnt want to know how much it cost him...hahaha...