Hi, I am in yr 9 and I get bullied, cus I'm fat, slow at swimmin, and runnin, ugly, and smart. Everyone calls me gay even tho I'm not. I've been contemplatin suicide 4 a while, I know it's wrong but I just donno what else to do. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
2007-12-05 07:44:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thanks guys u've all really helped!
2007-12-05 18:33:42 · update #1
Bob... each person would love to have an easy out to the life they are living... Not everyone is "that" happy! Do you like yourself? If you could change something, what would it be? And not just ONE thing... See if you can find the book, "the life you were born to live"... you'll see yourself & the things that are best for you to change if need be! Don't take the easy way out Bob, that makes you a coward on top of everything else you listed, & you put that title on the list! Make necessary changes, & start standing up for yourself - it will make a world of difference in your esteem once you do it!!
2007-12-05 08:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to do that. One thing I always say is never let anyone control your happiness and sadness. Live your life for you and don't worry about those losers. People are going to be mean , rude and nasty even some adults are like that, so it's not just you being picked on. You seem to be very smart so have enough common sense to know suicide is not the way out. Because even when you are dead people still hate. Talk to your folks about what's going on, so you can have family support. Good luck with life, I know you will be very successful in the further and laugh at this post when you get older.
2007-12-05 16:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by make?love*not$war! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up - you'd be giving the bullies what they want.
I used to be be bullied as well and I know it's not a very nice feeling, but once you get through it you know there's nothing that you can't do. ;)
I know this sounds like such a cliche, but time eases the pain, trust me.
Think of all the opportunities - when ou grow up you can be anything you want, why take that chance away???
Suicide is the easy way out - just have some stength & don't give up!
Good luck. :)
2007-12-05 16:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 9? Or you are in the 9th grade? Bullying is hard to deal with, I was bullied as well. I just worked through it and I now am grateful for the bullying because it made me a stronger, better person. Please don't commit suicide, your parents and the people who care about you would be devestated. I accept emails on this email me anytime. I want to help. Keep your head up man!
2007-12-05 15:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are 9 and feeling all of this it has to be related to your home life and mostly learned observations or overhearing others... you shouldn't even know what suicide is. Though not unheard of... this is so uncommon that I am more than tempted to claim this is a fraudulent post... but due to the possible severity of an error on my part I'll assume this is for real.
See your school counselor... don't delay.. and tell them what you have told us.
Edit:
ahh, in year 9 (9th grade) .. my bad on that miss.
Still, see your counselor and tell them what you told us.. that part still holds true.
2007-12-05 15:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by pip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide would be no better, face your fears speak to someone u can trust and tell them or call the crisis line it is open 24 hrs a day , or mabe u could go to a thearpist and work thru this .please dont take your life ,you r not all those things just people have made u to feel that way u gotta get ur self esteem back and u know i bet u r a beautiful person
2007-12-05 16:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Psychologist In The House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all go through trials. Some more than others but in time you will realize that what other think does not matter. What does matter is how you feel about yourself...and the good part about that is if you dont like your image you can change it. Be happy... there is so much to enjoy about life
2007-12-05 15:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by anthony m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You donjt want to do that because no matter how bad it seems, there is always a chance that the future will be better. You could win the lottery tomarrow and then it would be cool. So you have to hang in there,
2007-12-05 15:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing to remember about bullies is that they are unhappy themselves, that's why they feel the need to insult others. Try not to let them dictate your emotions.
2007-12-05 16:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by bryseana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all keep in mind that suicide as such does'nt exist.
You are about yourself there not about them.
Do not give a hoot...
you know what I mean?
2007-12-05 15:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋