I have an acquaintance who is extremely materialistic and likes imposing her opinions and her way of living on me. Talking to her is just simply boring to me because there’s usually one main subject: money. I do not envy this person AT ALL and I am not interested in how her business is doing, how big her house is, etc. If that’s the way she likes to live that’s fine, but I don’t like to be told that I should be this way too. I don’t think she’s happy in her life and she just seems very insecure in general.
I am starting my own business and what I do is very artistic and creative. I consider myself very lucky because my job is my real passion and joy. My job requires constant learning and developing the skills which I love as well. It does take time to start making good money in what I do. I had a few clients already and right now I am working on my business advertising. I believe that everything in life should be in balance and I try to live like that. Making money and having a business is only one part of my life but it is not my reason to live or my main goal in life.
Now, I don’t know if I am oversensitive or wrong about it, but it really makes my angry when my acquaintance asks me “Do you have any clients?” EVERY time she talks to me. Isn’t a little bit like asking somebody if and/or how much money they’re making? Isn’t that pretty impolite? This person does not have very good manners in general anyway, but that’s a different story…
Another thing is that this person likes giving advice even though I never asked her for any advice. She tells me what meetings I should go to, what are the best advertising strategies and what the best things for my business are. She’s not telling me all of this because she sincerely cares about me. It’s more like trying to intimidate or control me…
I realize that I cannot avoid dealing with people like her in my life and I would like to ask what are the best ways/strategies to respond to people asking you questions like that? What do you say to people like that?
2007-01-10
05:28:48
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Alex
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