Social Science - 10 January 2007

almose perfect, but fell in love even with his flaws. We spoke everyday and night and saw each other as mush as possible. He professed his love for me all the time. But he kept a secret from me that he had a child with a one night stand before we met. This caused him so much pain that made him feel suicidal. He didnt want a child w/ some girl he didnt respect or care for. Now that I helped him come to terms, he met his child & in a matter of weeks he decided to leave me to be with the mother. I helped him sooo much with his suicide situation, I thought it was a mistake, thats what he made me feel and I know he felt that way. But whats worst is he showed no regret and was very cold to me.Doesn't he realize who was there for him,I am the one who told him he should be a part of the childs life,I helped him come to terms with everything and I can't believe he did this to me.Of course I said hurtful things and now he wont even speak to me, making me feel bad. How can someone be this way?

2007-01-10 16:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Should I add my friend's bro. to mysace as a buddy? He is the man I have been in love with for a while-and he was kind of suspicious, but could never comfirm it. My friend to this day never knew my feelings never stopped for him; instead the kept growing. I am slowly learning to let go. He is 23 , I' m 19. He will be graduating this year and becoming an officer-so I doubt he'll have time for this type of thing. I feel like time is running out, and I do want to be his friend him-but at the same time I don't. What should I do? ...I'm sure he won't reject me, and he would obviously see my info. Thanks.

2007-01-10 16:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-01-10 16:53:23 · 4 answers · asked by Miklo 3 in Psychology

If this represents a personal past, the why is imperative to understand your reasoning.

2007-01-10 16:51:03 · 10 answers · asked by vanya_jbriere 2 in Psychology

2007-01-10 16:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by Red Dragon 2 in Other - Social Science

is it that with some people...

you just feel like intense dislike for them as soon as you meet them.. for no reason..

is it a chemistry thing?

2007-01-10 16:45:30 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa W 2 in Psychology

i keep having a dream where an uncle and a cousin(they're not related to each other) are at my parent's house during a family gathering. in the dream, i keep thinking "they're dead, they're not supposed to be here", more than once in those dreams, one of them tells me that they're not dead, that i'm wrong if i think they are. what does this dream mean?

2007-01-10 16:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by kelleygaither2000 1 in Psychology

My grandmother died last February and she always said that she would come back if she could. Sometimes I see things out of the corner of my eyes and nothing is there. Am I just being paranoid, or can this be a sign?
I promise I'm not crazy...lol :o)

2007-01-10 16:29:43 · 8 answers · asked by Lacey C 3 in Psychology

I have a degree in information management so I am a smart guy. I am also a male feminist. I know I know calm down girls.

Unlike other men I listen when women tell me what they want and they tell me they want respect. Well I have the UTMOST respect for women.

I am appalled by some of the comments from tiny tiny weinered males on this board recently and would like to apologise for them. Not all men have weiners the size of these rude neanderthals.

Never fear ladies! My strength is not for hurting - it is for helping! I will protect you from the neanderthals and give you the opportunity to assess what a true man is like. If you like what you see don't hesitate to drop me an email. I promise I will not push you. If/When you want to make love to me that is your decision.

In the meantime I will be hear your guardian protector.

Isn't that what a real man is?

2007-01-10 16:29:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

Minimum wage is $5.15, if it passes it will go up to I think $7.25 after about a year......Don't you think its time for one? But why are republicans wanting tax breaks for the companies in order for that to happen. I think its ridiculous. I don't see CEO's and other execs struggling. Why not give them a pay cut to cover the cost instead of getting breaks from the gov. I'll never understand why the rich always want to get richer.......

With gas prices, housing, food, and other general neccessities that have had alot of inflation over the years, how do they expect people to live off $5.15 an hour?

What do you think about this?

2007-01-10 16:26:48 · 34 answers · asked by kiki 4 in Economics

How can you manage the clash between the two? Should you leave your traditions to go with the global flow? Or should you ignore the global trand to keep your tradition?

2007-01-10 16:21:48 · 4 answers · asked by Amilolo 1 in Sociology

2007-01-10 16:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by Deepak S 2 in Psychology

how r u guys doing out there?is it only me that feels like i just cant make enough to pay for everything any more?...

2007-01-10 16:15:46 · 7 answers · asked by nyslv 1 in Economics

2007-01-10 16:15:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

Does anyone have it and get unwanted mean thoughts about the people they care about? like their friends, parents. I'm really close to my mom so i feel the guiltiest about that. How do i not feel guilty. I need someone to talk to that had or has this.

2007-01-10 16:10:17 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Psychology

Im 45 years old and quite frankly Im Beginning to feel paranoid and anxious around people. I usually have a heightened comical sense of humor. I work in a proffessional environment and I think people see me in a different light because I kid around and like to have fun at work. IM good at what I do but sometimes people take things a little too seriously. By the way I work in the medical field helping people with cancer.

2007-01-10 16:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by xaime11 2 in Psychology

2007-01-10 16:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by mhrhashemi 3 in Psychology

Where does this feeling originate? It is false guilt, do you think that people who are unable to feel guilt for their own actions, who have no boundries and no consideration for your feelings or rights, are the ones accusing you of the same thing,,, only if and when you say no to them. I think that there is balance, where their cup of holding guilt has hold in it, and our cup of having a conscience is leak proof, so we get all the guilt. And, howcome we feel guilty when we say no, but they have no guilt for abusing that privilege returning nothing back? Where and why did this evolve?

2007-01-10 16:01:32 · 3 answers · asked by EM-water2 6 in Psychology

I lied to my parents, they gave me their money for me to study and I did not study enough.
I am a scum
My midterm average mark in biology was 85 % but because I did not study as hard as before, it is going to 75 % because I was absent for most of my classes
I am tired
My average mark in math is 95 % but I did not review anything for Final exam
and there is physics
My average mark is less than for 40 because I was absent for most of my classes, i have 12 days to review bio and math but I have no time to study physics
My parents hardly could provide enough money for me going to school
This is not my first time that I promise to my parents to study but I do not
I really think, I am no useful to anyone, I should be dead,
I think about death most of time and I am going to do it

2007-01-10 16:00:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Are people who can write with their left and right hands smarter?

2007-01-10 16:00:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-01-10 15:59:14 · 10 answers · asked by sunder360 2 in Sociology

is it hat they are less rational and may actually sincerely believe something that is false, or is it because of their generally lower physical strength forces them to use more "passive aggressive" methods. Once again I said SEEM. please do show me where I'm wrong.

2007-01-10 15:52:45 · 26 answers · asked by michael H 4 in Gender Studies

I am a kind of person who doesn't have any aggressive emotion, this has become a drawback in my career. how can i change this attitude. my boss says i don't have fire, i'm filled with ice cubes

2007-01-10 15:49:10 · 16 answers · asked by Pluto2006 1 in Psychology

Ever since I was molested by a female family member, I've been very eager and efficient at pleasing the opposite sex. Since my so-called girlfriends usually seem to notice this, they rarely trust me and I have given up on serious relationships.

Before I went into business, all my relationships were intense and short, and many women admitted after getting involved that it was only physical. Some told me up front, and a few were married. I've been beaten up a few times and threatened even.

I am normal for the most part. I have a bachelor's degree, a regular job, but I also have a simple service I provide for females with extra benefits for those interested.

I was raised with a belief in God, with many morals, but my experiences in life has lead me to a different attitude, so that's not a concern. My looks will fade, my body will age, and I don't want to grow old alone some day, but in the meantime, if I'm going to be used, is there anything wrong with being paid for it?

2007-01-10 15:48:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sociology

2007-01-10 15:44:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-01-10 15:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by DENNISM 1 in Gender Studies

I much prefer a nice cloud cover or even rain. Here in California, it's been sunny much of the winter and I get really bummed every day the bright sun wakes me up even through my heavy shades. It's not just the sun waking me up. It's draining. I am much more energized in cooler weather. Do I have the opposite of SAD (people who are blue when there's not enough sun?) Has anyone ever heard of this?

2007-01-10 15:39:41 · 5 answers · asked by insidegirl 2 in Psychology

and what in Gods name is a risper??????????????? I already have confirmation that I am "the beast" .... anymore details will help


Talon!, oh pain, oh oh pain,
What majesty! and now that lost frame
Travesty! a lost hook, my new book
refrain refrain refrain
Time Time Sweet sublime and then again,
Time
Rispers and whispers,
Antic,
panic, panic,
Escape from solace how so frantic,
Short short night, welcome oh that sweet sweet oblivione,
Hawks are screaming, wasting blue light, quite quite rantic,
Passion, last night, was indeed the beast that stayed stayed home
And love, my love, oh how my love?
My love was the posie, the posie trapped in stone.

2007-01-10 15:37:03 · 8 answers · asked by peyeratemom 2 in Psychology

What the heck? I have no idea where this is coming from! I'm freaking out here! Normally he is a sweet, happy, silly little boy. I have no idea where he even picked up this language. We moniter what he watches on television, we are a normal happy, family. I don't even no how to react to this. (What I WANT to do is freak out and tell him I don't ever want to hear him say that again!) HELP!!!!! Is this one of those things that he's saying stuff just to see what my reaction is (He was just upset because I told him he had to go to bed.), or should I get him to a psychologist ASAP?

2007-01-10 15:34:57 · 16 answers · asked by MountainChick 3 in Psychology

In Decemeber 2006 Guatemalan people experienced a not so common event: the lack of money in Banks. No Bank in the system had cash to give to the people. If you had a check of Q. 100 the Bank couldn't give you cash with the excuse that the Central Bank of Guatemala had taken the old currency (the paper) to exchange it with a new one. Everyone started to freak out because no one had cash, only credit or debit cards could be used in a 3rd world country where plastic is not accepted in the majority of places. The crisis is still going on and what every person in Guatemala city (as myself) is asking: will I get my money back? Argentina had an economic crisis that begun with events like this. That is the purpose of my question: to find out if what happened last Christmas is the beginning of the end. I had the worst Xmas ever, people payed me in checks (I am a lawyer) but I couldn't get cash and many establishments charged me 8% more if I wanted to use credt or debit cards. Please help!

2007-01-10 15:32:49 · 4 answers · asked by Kirbylu 1 in Economics