Should I add my friend's bro. to mysace as a buddy? He is the man I have been in love with for a while-and he was kind of suspicious, but could never comfirm it. My friend to this day never knew my feelings never stopped for him; instead the kept growing. I am slowly learning to let go. He is 23 , I' m 19. He will be graduating this year and becoming an officer-so I doubt he'll have time for this type of thing. I feel like time is running out, and I do want to be his friend him-but at the same time I don't. What should I do? ...I'm sure he won't reject me, and he would obviously see my info. Thanks.
2007-01-10 16:54:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes. You don't have anything to loose. He IS your friend. I have friends on myspace that I don't even know. LOL!
I think it's cute that you're in love with your friend's brother. Is he single? If he is... just wait and see if he pursues you. If not, just leave nice comments on his myspace so that he acknowledges you.
Good luck.
2007-01-10 17:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Robinson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about infatuation is that it is so perfect. Because we are not with the person we can imagine that they are always perfect.
One night I had a dream of a famous movie star and she had the most perfect breasts. When I woke up I thought that I had never noticed this persons breasts before. Then I realized that they were perfect because I was the person who dreamed them up. They were my perfect breasts.
2007-01-11 01:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by charlie at the lake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, give yr best shot!!, why keep thinking of doing it, but still waiting... juz do it, no harm. Juz add as a friend is nothing, even tho if he has a gf, u juz add him as a friend. If luck on yr side his still single, then u juz lucky.
2007-01-11 01:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth.. You have grown up and realize it is his friendship you want from him and not a relationship. If he is truly your friend he will remain so, if not...better to find out now.
2007-01-11 00:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by nmd_elkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you torture yourself? Tell him how you feel. It will either end the friendship or take it to the next level, but you gotta know one way or the other.
2007-01-11 01:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! If he says he doesn't like you now, he'll never like you anyway! Go for it! You have nothing to lose ;)
2007-01-11 01:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jay Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not. Also, why not ask him out?
2007-01-11 01:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cysteine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so original with your comebackss huh!!! haha
2007-01-11 21:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by mce f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋