Ever since I was molested by a female family member, I've been very eager and efficient at pleasing the opposite sex. Since my so-called girlfriends usually seem to notice this, they rarely trust me and I have given up on serious relationships.
Before I went into business, all my relationships were intense and short, and many women admitted after getting involved that it was only physical. Some told me up front, and a few were married. I've been beaten up a few times and threatened even.
I am normal for the most part. I have a bachelor's degree, a regular job, but I also have a simple service I provide for females with extra benefits for those interested.
I was raised with a belief in God, with many morals, but my experiences in life has lead me to a different attitude, so that's not a concern. My looks will fade, my body will age, and I don't want to grow old alone some day, but in the meantime, if I'm going to be used, is there anything wrong with being paid for it?
2007-01-10 15:48:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
being a gigolo is fun and amazing coz you have top swallow your pride and all you know,,, but if youre doing this just for your own reasoms like you want a new things??? thats ridiculous... use it for the ones more important and acceptable reason... you might benefit in the future...
2007-01-10 19:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by eloi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with being a gigolo. However, I think there are issues that you should resolve - as you say - before you are old and alone.
If you are happy at the moment to be making money doing what you do - that's up to you! Nobody should judge you for that. But once you have decided that you want your life to be different, including a long-term partner and maybe even kids, there is so much more that they will need from you, and I think there is alot you will need to work through before you can seriously get your mind to a place where that will work for you and whoever is in your life.
I hope it works out for you in the end.. but in the meantime if you are happy doing what you do. Enjoy and don't let anyone make you feel guilty.
All the best!
2007-01-10 20:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Feta Smurf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are being paid to get laid you are the envy of all the men reading this post...how cool is that? Its not wrong if they(women) understand its a sex only thing and don't think that by paying your rent they have a "relationship"
2007-01-10 16:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since u have had gone through so many things that are unpleasent in ur life..u should know what's best for u and act according to what u feel is right..u don't have to ask others for opinion as what u think of urself is really what matters most....
2007-01-10 15:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by su_quinn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are completely up front about it all, so your "partner" isn't surprised or misled, then I think it's no big deal. If someone is willing to buy it, go for it. They are obviously getting something out of the deal.
2007-01-10 15:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by busybody12 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I envy you. I'd rather be a gigolo than a cuckold.
2007-01-10 19:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by BuddyL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can decide if that's right for you.
2007-01-10 15:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who can decide what's right for you--if this is what you want--then do it--
2007-01-11 02:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that there is nothing illegal, immoral, etc. about being a prostitute, nothing I guess.
2007-01-10 16:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL./....
IM WATCHING
DUES BIGALOW: MAN GIGALOW!!!
wow thats wierd.
2007-01-10 15:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋