Say, you write something, or paint a picture, or take a photograph, or put some degree of effort into any given project. Something tells you it's "really, really good" and you're bursting with pride, anxious to tell or show someone your 'masterpiece.' Just think of all those sad souls on American Idol. Now, one of two things happen. Either you receive a lukewarm reaction to your masterpiece--not qute what you expected--or, alternatively, when you look at it again a few days later or even the next morning, you've no idea why you thought it was so good to begin with. You see all sorts of mistakes and confusions and errors that, for some remarkable reason, were invisible to you immediately after your creation. It's easy to say we're 'delusional' or 'narcissistic' but I think that's too simple an answer. In my career I work with very talented people who have the same difficulty in distinguishing their best from their worst immediately after completion. Any thoughts or theories on this?
2006-12-20
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