What's the hardest thing you have ever had to do?

Question

Or had to go through?
I know the hardest thing I have ever done is childbirth, some women would agree. But I am also talking of mental trials, not just physical. Mentally, the hardest thing for me is the passing of a loved one, or delibrately causing anguish on another in an argument. It hurts all involved, hence the mental stress. I know this is not the best example, that's why I want to know what the hardest thing you have ever had to do is.

Answer 1

Hug and kiss my Dad goodbye, then walk out the door knowing I would never see him alive again.

Answer 2

I hate to say this but if your ex told you that you're too jealous and clingy then he must know what he's saying.
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Anyone that goes out clubbing just to see what their ex is doing or drive by his place at 7:00 a.m. to see who's there tell me that you need to work on something. I don't think that you are only jealous but also possessive. And if you don't change that then you will never get your ex back. Please don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to mean to you. I only want you to see what you are doing is so wrong. You have to admit that you are jealous and clingy. If you can't admit that then you'll never be able to fix the problem.

I understand that you don't like it if he dances and flirts in front of you. But guys are guys. And many guys don't see anything wrong with this. I know you feel hurt if he does that in front of your face. And it is disrespectful. But there are ways you can talk to your boyfriend if he's flirting while he's with you. You only have to tell him that it hurts you and that it's disrespectful and then ask him to stop doing it when he’s with you.

I don't know if getting back with your ex is going to last because now you have two problems. You were having problems with him because of his flirting and now you will have another problem because of this girl that he's going out with. It is eating you alive that he's involved with this girl and you know he's probably sleeping with her. How are you going to handle that if you get back together? Because of your jealousy and your insecurities are you going to be able to forget that he was ever involved with this girl? You really need to work on this and make sure if you try to get him back that you never again mention about his flirting or this girl. You can mention one more time how his flirting affects you but it has to stop there.

You asked how do you compete with the girl he's involved with. I looked at the picture and I can tell that your ex knows how to go for beautiful girls. So that give me a clear picture about how you look. I have a feeling that you are also very beautiful but for some reason I don't think you see yourself that way. The only thing I can tell you is that your boyfriend did not leave you because he didn't love you. He left you because of your jealousy and because you were clinging to him. If you love his as much as you say you do then fight for him and get him back. And if you do get him back then make sure that you can promise him that you will no longer be jealous, clingy or insecure about your relationship with him. If you can't promise him that then you may as well forget about him because it won't work if you don't change,

Answer 3

The hardest thing for me to do was to put my pet companion, MissMisha, down on Oct 13/03 at 6:40PM EST. She was the light of my life, never having had children. Unfortunately, regardless of the amount of money spent on medication and tests, Addison's Syndrome made her future a painful one as she couldn't tolerate the drugs.

I still miss her and hope that a cure or other medication is found so that someone else won't need to make this sacrifice.

Answer 4

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/YWAdd

Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 5

The hardest is to admit that in my life I made the choices that put me on the paths that I traveled and that any consequences where because of choices I made.
so the hardest has been to :
Accept the fact that I am where I am because this is where I chose to be.

Answer 6

The hardest thing I have ever had to do is move from Illinois to Florida and leave my family behind. They are all grown but I still miss them.

Answer 7

honestly, the hardest thing I've ever gone through was heartbreak...cliche as that sounds. I almost didn't make it through...literally. and the hardest thing I've ever had to do was to forgive the man who broke my heart.

Answer 8

had to cut myself in half to mail myself to pluto and find out if its really a planet or not. wow in retrospect it was a lot less painful than i htought it would be. birth is about the 10th most difficult thing ive evr done. nuber 9 was repeatedly have my balls hit by and aluminum bat for 5 days straight, it was the hunger that got to ya.

Answer 9

saying bye to my beloved girl before her leaving forever

Answer 10

trying to get a book in public