In high school I would always get told I looked like her, should become an impersonator, blah, blah, blah. Well, I graudated five years ago but still feel the need to live up to that. I hate it. We are definitely not identical, but there are some similiarities. My problem, however, is my nose. I have a tiny little bump in the middle of it and it totally ruins my self-confidence. Everytime someone mentions our resembelance, I feel like hiding my nose! Help!! How can I just forget about it?
2006-12-20 08:19:35 · 27 answers · asked by bethysethy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Um..get over it. And yourself.
2006-12-20 08:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If the biggest thing you have to worry about is resembling Britney Spears and a little bump on your nose then you need to really get over yourself. I suffer from stretch marks due to having five kids, hair loss from medications and drastic weight loss and dark circles under my eyes from losing weight in my face. Try being me and having seizures and my problems from taking medications and then see if you still feel sorry for yourself. You and Britney both seem equally superficial.
2006-12-20 16:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel the need to live up to anything. You are your own person, and if you feel it is suffocating you, you need to simply tell people in a nice way that you feel you do not want to be compared to her. Please, do not get a nose job. If everyone in the world was to get a nose job, we'd all be the same. If it really does ruin your self confidence, then it is up to you. But try and create your own self, instead of basking on someone elses.
Happy Holidays! :)
2006-12-20 16:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by Haloangel1400 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think that every girl at one point in her life will hate her nose. It's part of our genetic code to do so, and I'm definately one of them.
I have my grandfather's nose. He's Polish. It's huge. Mine's huge. I hated it for years. To be honest, though, I'm finally over it and have accepted the fact that it's who I am. Most people say I used to over-react about it anyway. We are our own worst critics, right? It's one of those things that you have to learn to love and accept. If you act like it hurts your self-confidence, people will notice that about you and pay even more attention to your nose. However, if you act like you love it, people will admire you for that and probably don't even notice your nose anyway. There's nothing more admirable than a woman who loves her body just the way it is.
As for the Britney thing? When people tell you that you look like her, I would totally ignore it. Unless you, too, are running around from club to club without panties, you have nothing to worry about. She's not someone to be admired, and someone who's connected to reality and knows her self-worth is.
2006-12-20 16:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by SChi25 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychiatrist
2006-12-20 16:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Britney Spears is a loser now. All people think about when they talk about her is she has 2 kids, divorced, and a fat ***! you are much better than she is! Find something about yourself you like, and go with it. Tell yourself everyday that you are a great person, and it is going to be a great day!
2006-12-20 16:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by lucynlynsey 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you can get plastic surgery done on your nose, or you can think of it this way:
don't think that britney is better looking than you in any way!!! as for your nose, there are plenty people with that kind of nose!! there's nothing bad about it. it doesn't even look bad, honestly!!! you might see it as bad, because britney doesn't have it. but really, it doesn't look bad at all. and think abt it. you really want to be like britney spears, or at least even look like her? have u seen her life?? her marital life especially! listen to this, if you're too pretty, you're gonna get taken advantage of! that's wat is happening to britney!! but if u really aren't as pretty as her, but ur at least close, then you can be sure that you're pretty, and you'll get true relationships more than britney! if anything, i think ALOT of people are better than britney, including you. :)
2006-12-20 16:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by MiKKi ~:B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you she is a pretty girl. Just learn to love the way you look no one looks perfect. If you focus to much on negatives it will only bring you down in life.
2006-12-20 16:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in a trailer park? Ha Ha Britney spears is yuck!! I would do whatever I had to so I could not look like her. Good luck.
2006-12-20 16:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get a nose job if you are so concerned with comparing yourself to Britney....and hey it might be worth it if your self confidence is ruined by this one feature!
2006-12-20 16:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by S.F 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well darling...being compared to britney spears is not a compliment. but if you are so self conscious about it i suggest getting a nose job
2006-12-20 16:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by babie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋