I'm sort of overwhelmed right now. I'm 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby, a little boy, and up until now the plan was for my partner to work 50-60 hour weeks so that I could stay home, avoiding childcare expenses and allowing me to take care of my own baby.
Tonight, though, he said that he plans to go back to school in August and cut down to 40 hours a week. I'm all for him furthering his education, but we'll barely get our bills paid on 40 hours a week, so I'll have to go to work. Which is fine, except all the jobs I could get would leave me with $200 a month after childcare and taxes. My mom could babysit, but only after 5, which rules out most jobs. And school starts in August and I won't be able to work till November.
What would you do? Suck it up for two years while he earns his degree? Ask him to wait till NEXT semester so I can get settled in with baby and a job? Find an at-home job? Of course I'll discuss it with him but he's at work and I wanted opinions NOW.
2007-07-18
20:13:07
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