Pregnancy - August 2007

OK I have told my boyfriend the possibility that I may be pregnant....(I know I am, just testing waters..)....anyways he said to me....'Oh i wouldnt be ready for that kind of thing....its just not the right time'. We then said if I were that he would want me to have an abortion. He said he would be there when i get it to give me support.

Option (1): Do I just say im going to have the baby and thats it...with or without his support.....and jeoprodise our relationship...have the love for & from my child, but without my boyfriend, with whom i love deeply.

Option (2): Listen to reason and perhaps have the abortion (which i would hate myself for doing).....possibly end up resenting him.....and who knows 3 years down the track we could break up and then I would be 30 yrs old...with not much time on side to try for a baby...

Im so confused....i try to reason with myself....just cant keep a clear head.

Just wondering if people have been in similar situation....and what was the outcome?

2007-08-31 23:03:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had my preiod on the 7th aug and was spotting on the 23th could this be pregnancy
signs:
i was cooking bacon and it made me fell sick it never has not done that before.
going to the toilet more
feeling sick after i eat samething
mooded
tried
cramps around my belly button
please help do u think it is

2007-08-31 22:31:42 · 8 answers · asked by SARAH 2

But for de past 5 days r so i haven't felt anything. i went 2 my GP yesterday and he told me because he a nothing 2 listen 2 my babies heart beat with he couldn't tell me 4 sure if everything is ok. i'm goin 4 my first scan on wednesday but i can't stand even a few days more not knowing anything. Has this ever happened 2 any of u? Have i lost my baby? I really wanna know what u people think please help!!!!

2007-08-31 22:22:58 · 7 answers · asked by aoife b 2

This is my third baby - you would think I would know the difference, but I am beginning to question myself -
My stomach (uterus) is tightening up like a basketball staying that way for maybe 30-45 seconds and then goes back to normal.
The feeling is not painful, just uncomfortable. With my previous two pregnancies, I had preterm labor that I think felt similar to this, but when I was in real labor with both of them, it felt like this too! I have never felt a true painful contraction, I always have my epideral by the time the STRONG contractions kick in.
How many would be considered ok in an hours time???

thanks for any help

2007-08-31 22:09:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sassafras 1

While reading The Robber Bride (Margret Atwood. Read it, its good :)) she mentions something about left handed people possibly being one half of twins, one of whom died before birth. Is there any evidence to support this theory- macabre but interesting to a left handed person like myself!

2007-08-31 21:17:33 · 23 answers · asked by lilredhead 2

I just found out that im having a boy and i was wondering if any one could think os some good brands of clothing....
Nothing like the gap or childrens place, i would rather not have my baby in trains puppys and footballs....at least not after 6 months but ya.......any good brands? an example would be whatever the brands are at hottopic and spencers and something like quicksilver and also some skate brands

2007-08-31 20:42:28 · 8 answers · asked by lildevil 2

Does this happen to anyone else? I am almost 8 months pregnant and my baby girl is very active, but as soon as I tell my husband or anyone else to come and feel , she stops moving!! So far no-one except me has felt her move, it's like she knows when someone else is coming to have a feel!! I'm sure my husband thinks I'm making it up!

2007-08-31 20:19:38 · 19 answers · asked by Nickynackynoo 6

I really want a kitten...I have a 3 year old child already and am expecting another in Spring...I have always wanted a cat but this is the first place we have lived in with a garden and so have never gone for it before. WOuld it be dangerous for me? I wouldnt use a litter box and I would be careful about any mess outside...my husband would clean it up.

2007-08-31 20:14:15 · 12 answers · asked by Daisyhill 7

Is there anything else I can do to get this ball rolling? I had a sweep of my membranes by my doc yesterday and lost my mucus plug today. My midwife suggested a cohosh tincture, but it makes me throw up and sex isn't working out...any ideas...I am small framed and the baby is already 10 lbs!

2007-08-31 20:11:55 · 7 answers · asked by Leslie K 3

My girlfriend has had a experience very very close to a period if not a period since the 25th of august and its still going on. She says it feels like a period, looks like one, and etc. We were worried that she could have been pregnant. Is it possible to get symptoms like this while pregnant?

2007-08-31 20:11:38 · 4 answers · asked by Help 1

I'm terrified of giving birth, but I absolutely want children, how do I get over this fear?

I'm a big huge baby when it comes to pain. but I don't like the thought of an epidural, I don't really want one.

Is it the contractions that hurt the most or your child coming out? [Please don't say these are dumb questions, I'm not a mother, I've never had children so I do not know.]

Any advice about the birthing and labour process or anything?? and how to get over this fear? please help!

2007-08-31 19:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying not to get my hopes up too much, but i was suppose to start my period on the 30th, but still havent. My period is hardly ever late. I felt like i was going to start but never did. Now i am having these awful pains in my side and stomach. I took a pregnancy test today just for the heck of it and there was a real faint negative line, not dark at all. I am thinking that it was maybe too early or....maybe i am just late for my period.
I had a pap smear done last month and it caused my period to come 2 weeks early, but it should be back on track now.
I want a baby so badly, but dont want to get my hopes up. Anyone have any idea of what could be going on with me?

2007-08-31 19:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by cherish 2

i am a gay man and just got a pussy,breasts,vagina organs implanted.please help!!!

2007-08-31 18:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i also got a brown discharge, that lasted for 5-6 days, now im starting to get tired at certain times of the day and my back hurts. i also had cramps on my right side. but they were very light and they came and went. do u think im pregnant?

2007-08-31 17:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-31 17:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by Diva 3

When i went to the doc on Tuesday he informed me that i was dehydrated....well i hate to drink lots of water cause it makes me feel even more bloated!! Well he told me that if i continue to not drink enough water that when i get farther along it could put me into early labor!!!! I had no clue that the reason i was having cramps was because of not drinking enough water!!!

Did anyone one else NOT know about this?? Lets just say water is now my new best friend!!!

2007-08-31 17:17:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-31 14:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by chelsealynn1993 2

2007-08-31 14:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by lilpebbles6969 1

I'm 5 weeks pregnant,but I haven't really had any signs yet.The only thing I've really experienced is I pee more than usual,sometimes smells make me a little nausious until they take it away so it only lasts for a sec.Nothing else really.Is that normal?Everyone keeps telling me everyone is different so I don't know.

2007-08-31 14:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by lovergirl 1

how to clean umbilical cord after it falls off?

2007-08-31 14:29:29 · 5 answers · asked by Bella Lina 2

I have not had a period in 2 months im i pergo???

2007-08-31 14:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by sherry 1

yes if you have had sex no matter what you always run the risk of getting pregnant.

2007-08-31 14:26:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my baby is at risk of having Down's Syndrome. This is my second pregnancy and everything was fine with my first. Anyone else have this happen to them? If so what are your thoughts?

2007-08-31 14:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi Everyone,

I just got my triple screen results and they came back that my baby is at risk for Downs Syndrome. The nurse said however, that the "positive" result may be due to an incorrect calculation of my due date. My ultrasound is scheduled for tuesday.

Here's my question. How many of you have been through this or know someone who has? What happened?

I'm not a big fan of the test, but I did it because my Dr is. In my opinion ALL people are special and I wouldn't terminate the pregnancy if I were having a child with special needs. I won't do amnio because of the risks to the baby & after losing a pregnancy eariler this year I won't take that chance.

I'm looking for validation and support for myself and for anyone else who is going through this! Thank you!

2007-08-31 14:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by CatTech 3

what are the chances of getting pregnant if ur on a birth controll pill? How about if you wear a condom? If you do both is there any chance of getting pregnant?

2007-08-31 14:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by softball-luva21 3

my legs hurt really bad starting at my hips and goes down in to my feet.
why am i hurting so bad?
what can i do for it?

2007-08-31 14:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it big?

2007-08-31 14:06:51 · 16 answers · asked by otherthanot 1

I think about 19 or 20. I am 22 and having my first one. I am not critizing any of the teen parents but it's just opinions.

2007-08-31 13:57:10 · 21 answers · asked by Wendie 6

What does it feel like when you cervix is dilating. I was 2 cm as of a week ago, and 75% effaced. Im pretty sure that im feeling dialation pains. Read something about it on google. But wanted some personal stories. Thank you.

2007-08-31 13:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 little girls<3 3

2007-08-31 13:50:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous