Pregnancy - September 2007

My question kind of different...I am 20 weeks pregnant with our first child...Have an extremely caring and sweet husband
He works very hard, and travels a lot too. I get very little time to spend with him...Living in a joint family too...
Problem is ever since I am pregnant he stays away....Earlier he had a wonderful drive and used to initiate things at least 2-3 times a week...Now it is always I who initiaites "things"..Which is even brushed off gently ...When I confronted him...He says he is afraid he will hurt the baby...I love him for his concern....But I also ache to have him hug me and cuddle me...How do I convince him?
Funnily enuf my desires are on an all time high LOL! My pregnancy is normal (touch wood ) ..Dr has not given any stay away warnings....I dont think it is wrong...Besides if I was uncomfortable I wud definitely tell him so....Please guys I am not trying to sound desperate....But atleast cuddling kissing and caressing would be welcome at this point ...Help !

2007-09-30 23:58:45 · 4 answers · asked by febdue 1

but it mostly only happens when i'm walking plus i really feel alot of pressure down there as if hes sliding down i go to the doctor every wed. but i'm just curious could this be it or me dialating ?

2007-09-30 22:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by kalaluvsdaniel_07 1

2007-09-30 19:15:56 · 6 answers · asked by msds0413 2

i am due in 2 days & i had a check up last wednesday & i was told my baby has turned & is now breech. if it is still breech this wednesday i will be having a caesarean on thursday.

i am just wondering has tis happped to anyone else, or someone they know, & what was the outcome???

thanks everyone!

2007-09-30 18:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam scared to death because i just felt my stomach which is a little hard and tender and i feel a small ball in my stomach could i really be pregnant for real or is something back wrong with me!

2007-09-30 17:53:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee' is pregnant and I swear I have been gaining weight with her because she eats all the time! I guess I am just so used to eating with her, I will grab a bite to eat along with her because I have become accustomed to eating with her.

2007-09-30 17:51:32 · 10 answers · asked by Brad 2

My husband and I always use condoms + my birth control. Recently we had an incident where the condom was not up to par... Anyway, I miss a pill AFTER we ended up having unprotected sex. And I've been trying to figure out the posibility of being pregnant, but NO CLUE! So anyway, I was one week into my pack of pills before I forgot to take one. We haven't had unprotected intercourse sense before I missed my pill. What do you think? I could SERIOUSLY use some help here! I will be happy either way. I have a son already and had been planning on having one more... Although I wouldn't mind waiting a while;)

2007-09-30 17:01:27 · 8 answers · asked by Lorelle 2

So, I am planning on being pregnant (at some point-- I'm not even married or out of school yet) but I was wondering how to ensure that I get big-- is it even possible for me to affect that?

2007-09-30 16:55:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tialiarhetta 3

I have appointment in morning anyway for my monthly checkup, is it ok to wait till than.?? freaking out over here!!

2007-09-30 16:44:15 · 7 answers · asked by tw9165 4

For a while a friend and I have been debating whether or not a woman can be on her period while she is pregnant.
I was under the impression that if you are bleeding down there while you are pregnant then you are haveing a miscarage.....???
And if you have a period isn't that usually a sign that you aren't pregnant?

2007-09-30 16:38:37 · 22 answers · asked by Spanky McSpank 2

on sat i took a pregnancy test and it had 2 lines. one was very faint. than this morning i took another and it came up the same. is this a positive result?

2007-09-30 16:37:41 · 9 answers · asked by ashleycheshireco 1

ok so on the last day of her period we had sex. i ejaculated into her vagina. i've ejaculated two times earlier that day. she started taking birth control pills the next day. i'm pretty nervous. what are the chances that she'll be pregnant?

2007-09-30 16:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on September 20th and the 22nd. He did not come in me, but I could feel his precum flow inside my body. My last period was September 5th and I know ovulation is about two weeks after a period, right?
I've been feeling nausea and I feel like vomiting sometimes. My breasts feel enlarged and they are tender to touch. I've been falling asleep more than usual during the day and feel more tired than usual. I'm only 16 but I just have this feeling that i'm pregnant, and I want to have this baby. My ex-boyfriend doesn't know about my feelings yet, and i won't tell him until I'm sure. I plan on taking a pregnancy test if I miss my period.
Could I be pregnant?

2007-09-30 16:11:59 · 23 answers · asked by xFashionTipsBaby 1

I am a coffee addicct!!! I have dramatically decrease my coffee intake to about 1 1/2 to 2 cups of coffee a day.....I know that they say you shouldn't drink a lot of coffee during pregnancy...but what are the effects of drinking too much coffee?? are there any proven defects??

2007-09-30 16:07:29 · 12 answers · asked by Ruth G 3

I am in the early stages of my second pregnancy. I find out my due dates tomorrow. I crused through my first pregnancy with twins. This time round I am having a hard time coping. I feel so agro all the time. I feel like I am constantly yelling at my twins (4yo) and my husband. I have become a monster.

Is anyone else experiancing this?

How did you get a grip on it?

Will it pass with time?

I spoke to my Dr abut it and he said it is because i am getting old. LOL im 29.

Please help before my family start to hate me.

I should also mention this is a much wanted pregnancy. I have been looking forward to it for some time.

2007-09-30 15:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by the_little_one_said 3

i have not taken a pregnancy test b/c i have no money to do so.

2007-09-30 15:52:35 · 7 answers · asked by the_addiction_addict13 1

I know you cannot estimate when you will go into labour going by how dilated you are, BUT would you be likely to go into labour soon if you are dilating at a reasonable speed. 2 weeks ago my cervix was closed and now it is about 4cm dilated. I am 35 weeks pregnant and was in hospital 2 weeks ago with early contractions that they stopped. This is my 3rd child.

2007-09-30 15:35:21 · 5 answers · asked by Mum_of_2.5 2

We have been trying to get pregnant for a couple years now....I'M PREGNANT! I just found out! I should be telling him instead of telling all of you, but I want a very unique way to tell him since we have been trying for so long!!!
Please help!

2007-09-30 14:46:10 · 28 answers · asked by AllyJ 1

her that it's really not her fault and that I'm sterile?

2007-09-30 14:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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im a lil worried im not big enough im 32 weeks im going to ask my doc 2morrow i know most of you will say if your doc has not said anything your fine.i just want to know if you were this big or bigger?or do you think im big enough.i don't want him to come out under weight. <3

2007-09-30 13:56:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

idk if im really pregnant because my last period was Aug 5th and Aug 20 i had sex then after that i started to get the preg symptoms and then a week later i bled for 3 days and all month long my boobs were soar and stuff and then my tummy grew and my boobs im gaining weight and now i just started to bleed is this normal am i really preg?

2007-09-30 13:50:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The first day of my last period was 9/19. According to one of those free online ovulation calendars I am in my ovulation days. 9/29-10/4 (10/3 being the highest ovulation day). I am wetter than usual today with a very HIGH sex drive today (had to have it!!) The thing is I messed up my pills last month and just thought I would start fresh after I get my next period. Does anyone think I goofed? I just have to wait it out, huh? I am not trying to get pregnant. I have only been 'seeing' this guy for 5 months and it is not a relationship.

2007-09-30 13:41:25 · 0 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4

I feel horrible to even post this, as I know I should be grateful people care enough to keep giving me stuff...

People have been giving us a lot of second hand stuff they have been picking up at garage sales and stuff. I am all for second hand clothes, second hand blankets, etc... but the other day I got a swing from someone that just completely fell apart when I went to clean it. If mild pressure from a rag is going to make it collapse, I would hate to see what would happen if my daughter pulled up on it someday. We've gotten a lot of totally filthy older items that look like they have been stored in a garage for years. I do appreciate people thinking of my family, but... I just don't want my daughter to get hurt or sick on some of this stuff. How do you tell someone you don't want any more large items secondhand, especially when they know you don't have that item yet. I would feel rude saying 'please shake the object and make sure it doesn't collapse before you buy it?' Any ideas?

2007-09-30 13:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy 7

me and my boyfriend had sex the day before my expected period. but now i am almost a week and a half late. we used a condom.. i am just not sure and am really worried do you think i could be pregnant? or does having sex delay my period? ahhh help!

2007-09-30 13:39:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i keep feeling the baby kick like on my bladder is that normal?, here is my other question i,m tiny about 4'7 and 96lbs how big do you thing i will get i know i have to wait and see but i wanted opinions,my last is if your as far as i am how are you feeling or did you feel when you were as far as me? ,meaning when did you first wake up and actually see your tummy had popped and how were you feeling thanks for answering

2007-09-30 13:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5

2007-09-30 13:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by redneckangel82 1

ok so im 37 weeks and my boyfriends mom( a nurse) had been telling me that she thinks i may be in my early stage of labor; befor the hospital will actually admitt u. and i have been having contrations but havent timed them cause when i have in the past there iregular. however they are starting from the lower back the work there way to the lower front like true labor contrations do but they have been like that in the past too, pluse i have been having sharp percing pains on my cervix all day and my dr. said that im at one cm and that was on thursday and the contrations dont stop when i change activity or any of that like they say they should if its false. i dont think i am in realll labor but its my first so im not really going to know so if any one has any advice of wheather i am or not and if i should go to labor and delivery to see if i am i could really use the advice. im just really confused and need help. by the way hes due oct 22( or so they say)

2007-09-30 13:22:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was 39 weeks with my first.

I am currently 37 weeks tomorrow with my second.

Just tryng to anticipate when the big event is gonna start lol

2007-09-30 13:17:17 · 16 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6

I am 27 yrs old, married, and 6 mths pregnant. My problem is that I am deathly scared of giving birth. I have heard so many horror stories about the pain and the pain of the epidural. I feel so panicked and scared like I'm going to pass out. I have had nightmares about this.. I need some advice on how to ease my anxiety about this. I really feel like crying when I think about it but I am so anxious to meet my little baby boy. Help please because I feel like I'm losing it.

2007-09-30 13:16:47 · 20 answers · asked by Goldie 3

i am about 35wks pregnant and every once in awhile i have some green looking discharge has anyone had this im not sure what it is but i think my baby girl is about to be here soon what do you guys think please be serious!

2007-09-30 12:43:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous