Pregnancy - March 2007

I am pregnant and even though I love my boyfriend very much, we don't live in the same state and I am thinking about staying where I am and raising the child by myself. Is this selfish of
me?

I wouldn't ask him for child support or anything and he can see his child whenever he wishes. He has children from a previous relationship and so do I, so neither of us want to leave where we're currently living. He is pressing me to leave my child with my ex and go there to live.

I know, I know...We should be more responsible, but we did use birth control (unfortunately people, it doesn't always work) So my question is what to do and why?

Oh and btw, I AM NOT getting an abortion, nor am I giving the baby up for adoption, so don't even mention it.

2007-03-28 07:36:45 · 10 answers · asked by blondeambition 1

My friend thinks she may have just had a miscarriage yesterday because she had a positive hpt and is now having heavy bleeding. She isn't currently on Medicaid, but is on the Medicaid Family Planning Waiver, covers birth control and yearly pap, and she hasn't gotten in to see an OB yet. She just took the test 2 days ago. If she goes to the hospital to get checked out and it turns out she did have a miscarrage or is having one, will Medicaid cover the procedures or whatever she may need? She only works part-time and can't afford a medical bill.

2007-03-28 07:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by ♫Hope♫ 6

I'm 26 weeks pregnant And for the last 4 days, she has only moved about 4 times a day if that, but before that she was always moving around all day and all night!! What could be some reason for this? Is there something wrong?Please answer!

2007-03-28 07:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by L Mac 1

Im on the shot and I had sex 2 weeks ago and the other night I had an orgasm and it gave me a very nasty labor like cramp with wrap around back pain for about 5-10 min. also this week I've been very bloated and gassy. I havent had a period since June I believe from the shot. Could the pain and the bloating be a sign???

2007-03-28 07:29:19 · 7 answers · asked by Brandy L 1

Did any of you take a home test, have it come out negative then go to the doctor and find out you are pregnant?

2007-03-28 07:26:55 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki 3

is it normal,how can i ease my pain during sleep.when i sit up i feel ok.

2007-03-28 07:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by ANITHA 3

We are really trying to save money, is it better to start stockpiling wipes and diapers now before the baby is born, my husband jokes we are going to have a diaper wall in the basement?

2007-03-28 07:21:57 · 17 answers · asked by Bored 2

2007-03-28 07:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by mamajojo22 1

My hubby and i have been married almost 4.5 yrs and i am 23 yrs old he is 29.We were seperated for 8 months due to fighting i felt he was pressuring me to become pregnant and a stay at home mom which i was not ready for at all so i kept taking the pill.During the seperation i started seeing my ex.bf and first everything from highschool. I ended it because he was a newly wed.Any way i just found out i am 4 months pregnant but my hubby and i did not get back together till 2 months ago?Can the doctor have messed up the date?

2007-03-28 07:19:27 · 13 answers · asked by Jackie B 1

Would like to know if being on the birth control for many years affects your chances of having a baby in the future?

2007-03-28 07:16:07 · 13 answers · asked by PTG621 1

I am curious because I feel soft kicks down low, by pubic bone, and then I feel really strong kicks under my ribs. Is she in a head down position now? Or do they still move around alot that it could be anything? Just wondering if anyone knows

2007-03-28 07:14:23 · 6 answers · asked by wondering 2

I dont wanna tell my mom that
Im pregnet so i wanna fake my mestruation untill
i solve this out
im thinking about abortion
in a clinic
(sunnyvale ca)
please help me what should I do??

2007-03-28 07:12:30 · 16 answers · asked by lisa 1

Is there any specific pregnancy stores or websites that actually have really cute maternity wear?

2007-03-28 07:11:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i know that im only 13 but i just love children i mean i keep trying to get my gramma to sign me up for baby sitting classes cuz i hear that it lets you decide if your ready for kids but she keeps for getting and i just love kids and my aunt just found out shes prenant and im soooo jealous i want one so bad but I know that if I had one i would probably not beable to afford it so i just wanted to know who old is right for you to have a kid becase im dying to have one please help i need to ALOT...

2007-03-28 07:06:43 · 35 answers · asked by kieras_411 1

2007-03-28 07:06:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does a mucus plug look like, and what happens when you lose it....All details please =-) I am 38 weeks pregnant with first baby, and I never heard of such a thing untill the other day!

2007-03-28 07:03:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 5 months pregnant and recently got an overwhelming craving for a Burger King Whopper sandwich, I know it may sound funny but it's serious. Any other food I eat isnt satisfying me! It's even to the point where ill fix an all-time favorite of mine and i'll sit and stare at it, often feeling naseus. I know whoppers arent the healthiest choice but I feel like I could eat them for breakfast, lunch, and dinner! Prior to the pregnancy I never even cared for fast food, so I dont really understand why I am craving these, any insight?

2007-03-28 07:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is decreased appetite a sign of the beginning of pregnancy?

2007-03-28 07:01:14 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki 3

I am know 7 1/2 weeks pregnant. I started spotting when I was 6 weeks pregnant. I went to the doctor the next day.. the baby was fine, it even had a heart beat... 3 days later i started to bleed real heavy and even blood clots, i went to the doctor and all he did was tell me i was in the process of a misscarriage..... he didnt even check me... the heavy bleeding didnt last to long, the next day i felt fine, i still bleed little here and there now, it has been a week.... I dont know when to go to the doctor again?? I have an appointment coming up very soon, but its for a ultrasound to see if have anything left after a D&C i am supposed to have? the doctor never told me when to go back and get one! He didnt tell ME ANYTHING! I took another pregnancy test yesterday and it said i was still PREGNANT? can this be true? can i still be pregnant?

2007-03-28 07:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by Nissa 3

Or did this even happen to you. I am 17 weeks and the past couple of days all I can think about is food.

2007-03-28 07:00:30 · 8 answers · asked by I love sushi 4

we are planning to buy a house which will be 9 miles away from my current ob/gyn,I'm used to her & i like her,But the worst thing is the traffic .These 9 miles most of the times take 40min,Would that be o.k,confused if i had to change the doc..

2007-03-28 07:00:15 · 7 answers · asked by MJ 2

i just had a severe menstrual type cramp that lasted over 30 minutes. after resting, it's subsided but my baby is kicking like crazy now. anyone ever had this?

2007-03-28 06:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by bb 4

Is 29 weeks too early to lose your mucus plug, Or can you lose it at anytime??? I just lost mine a few minutes agoa nd was wondering.. And I do know what it looks like because I lost mine at 38 weeks with my son.. Even though he wasn't born until 3 weeks later... I was just worried and thought I would ask...

2007-03-28 06:57:27 · 21 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 5

everthing i have read says that by now my uterus is too large to remain in my pelvis and should be felt just above the pubic bone. i feel absolutely NOTHING, except mushy stomach. to add to my worry this is my third pregnancy and i am very small, only 110 pounds which should make it even more obvious. i did just hear a very healthy heartbeart at 11 wks exactly, so i really don't think its miscarriage, but i'm freakin anyway. can anyone relate or do u know y this might be?

2007-03-28 06:56:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 32 weeks pregnant and getting sharp pains in my lower back, only on the left side, and only when I start to walk?.... anyone with advice or anything?

2007-03-28 06:55:40 · 4 answers · asked by yahoocraze 3

Would anyone like to share some tips on cutting costs for baby items (diapers, formula, wipes, etc)? Thanks. :)

2007-03-28 06:55:05 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Lucky♥ 6

i fill real stupid asking this question but i would like to know?

2007-03-28 06:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by babyfaceshorty1anonly 1

Nothing is helping, as far as medicines are concerned. I'm sneezing every fifteen minutes, can't breathe out of my nose, and I refuse to take any meds that are not approved by my doctor.

Any alternative treatment would be terrific. I've gone through a whole box of Kleenex, and that's just so far... TODAY!

Please help???

2007-03-28 06:53:09 · 3 answers · asked by <3 The Pest <3 6

Anyone have any suggestions for twin names [[baby boy and baby girl names]]?

Names that would flow with my hubby's and my own name (Karla and Michael)

thx for your suggestions..

2007-03-28 06:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have said to her who said you was naming the baby and she says well i did and i mean we dont even know what we are having yet and she wont stop its making me very angry the name she has picked i like but my husband and i were considering other names and just dont like being told what to name my 1st child. what should i do beause she just wont listen!! and please i dont need anyone elses negativity!!

2007-03-28 06:47:13 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous