how do I fake menstruation?

Question

I dont wanna tell my mom that
Im pregnet so i wanna fake my mestruation untill
i solve this out
im thinking about abortion
in a clinic
(sunnyvale ca)
please help me what should I do??

Answer 1

Be honest. Tell your mom and let her help you.

Answer 2

sweetie I wish I lived closer so I could talk to you in person. I wish I could be your friend. so lease don't get mad at me when I say ...I know it will be really hard , but honesty is the best answer. your young you choose to have sex and now you've got a baby growing inside of you, I understand if you think your too young to care for this child but I wish you'd really think about it before you abort your baby... maybe your family would be supportive if you choose to keep the baby or maybe you could make some couple who has always wanted a child but was never able to have their own dream come true. if you want to fake your period for a month or two to figure out how you want to tell everyone then , make sure to pretent to be using your normal amount of pads or tampons.
what does the babies daddy think? does he know?
why are you so scared to tell your parents? because you feel you let them down?
taking responciblity would be the best thing for both your unborn child and your family.
I'm 23 now when I was 17 I became pregnant and I was really scared but I decided to have the baby..but I misscarried at 10 weeks. I was to sad I cryed for months!!!! I became pregnant again after 2 years of trying when I was 19 ..this time I had a son he's now 4 ...since he was ... a year old I've tried again to get pregnant... it was every emotion and hard for me month after month of failed attempts...seeing other parents with their babies and watching my son get older and older ...until this month when I found out I was pregnant again!!! Finally I"m 5 weeks and 4 days...and I'm so afraid of misscarring again, but happy I've learnt that my baby is the size of a sesame seed and it's heart has begin working this week... by next week it will be the size of a grain of rice and the arms and legs are being formed at week 7 it will be the size of a raspberry and will start moving around.... all the while it's growning into a little human knowing that my body has the ability to do such a great thing it's amazing!
weigh your options it's your body , it's your babies life whatever you choose...

Answer 3

There is no way to fake your period. You should just be honest with your mom so she can help you through this. How old are you? You should tell someone or go to a planned parenthood clinic you more than likely need to see a doctor to make sure everything is okay. There are other ways other than abortion Having an abortion can cause problems for you in the future when you are ready to be a parent you should think about adoption.

Answer 4

First I think that you need to be honest with your mom. If she's anything like my mom she probably already knows. Honesty is best. About the abortion thing I think that's wrong. I feel that if a person has balls enough to lay down with someone (knowing what could happen) then I think they should have the balls to take on the responsibility of being a parent. I think you should talk to your mom and maybe she'll help out. If you have an abortion I know you'll regret it if not now maybe later. I know you don't want that on your heart. Please think about it. Good luck.

Answer 5

you shouldnt hold off the help for your pregnancy... you should go ahead and tell her so you can get you vitamins and everything that you need.... believe me I went through the same thing... I didnt tell anyone for FIVE months and it caused serious problems and almost caused me to die because I wasnt getting the help I needed or eating stuff the I should or should not have .....so I would tell her... and you should do some research before you decide abortion is the plan your sticking with... I think if you looked up some stuff you will change you mind... just remember its not the babys fault...there is always someone wanting to adopt.

Answer 6

Yea Abortion is not a good idea. Your mom loves you more than anything in the world. I know you are afraid of telling her, but it would be in your best interest to tell her straight up. She can help you through your challenges and help you make the right decision. Plus in some places you have to be 18 to have an abortion. And if you do go through with it, know you will have to live with that the rest of your life. I hope you make the right decision.

Answer 7

Oh honey please don't fake this and take it on all alone. I have been down the path of being so afraid when having to face your parents with an unplanned pregnancy. Lying and faking will hurt only you in the end, and then to end it all with an abortion will only add to more hurt down the road. There is help out there for you. Contact the Alpha Omega Pregnancy center and they will give you help and direction. You are so not alone in this and there are MANY people that are willing to help you. Please remember the choices you make now will forever influence your life. Please, if you can't go to your mom go toan adult that you can trust sweetie.

Answer 8

I'm not being harsh, but if you are mature enough to get pregnant, be mature enough to tell you mother. She will probably be angry at first, but she's just worried about what your future will be like. Adoption is better than abortion any day. If you don't want anyone to know you're pregnant, go away until you have the baby, and give it up. Really, you need to let your mother know so she can help you.

Answer 9

Please tell your mom. You think she won't understand or she will judge or whatever but that is the best thing you could do. I know it sounds crazy but it will work out for the best. I bet she will surprise you.
I have a daughter going on 17 and a 13 year old daughter as well. If they (God forbid) ever got pregnant I would want them to tell me so we can go through it together. I wouldn't want them to be afraid.
Stop being scared and go talk to your mom, she loves you, she chose to give birth to you.
I will say a prayer for you and your baby.

Answer 10

Talk to your mom, she may understand more than you give her credit for.

Us mom's have our ways of knowing when our daughters are menstrating. I look for all sorts of evidence. I am not going to tell you what I look for. I think you need more help than a "cover up job"

Answer 11

ummm...you can't and if thats the only reason you want to get an abortion thats insnae you got pregnant now man up and tell your mom she'll help you it's not your only option...there are millionsof people out there that can't have kids!