I told my mother I was planning to get married sooner than expected b/c I did not want a child out of wedlock. My father does not know that I even had sex before, further more find out that I am pregnant under his roof still. Guess what? He is a minister. If I have the child and still live here, he would not be able to be a minister, but would have to step down b/c of me. Any man that cant take care of his household is not suitable to take care of the church. But, I will be moving out, therefore I will be out of the house when baby is born. My mother really does not want me to marry the guy though b/c he does not come to worship only once and he is stubborn in his ways. Neither does she want me to have the baby, b/c my father after all believes I never had sex, further more be pregnant. I really want to have the baby and dont want an abortion. But I dont want to disappoint my father. My mother is already disappointed and father does not know. Please help..What should I do?
2007-03-21
09:35:38
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