my b/f put a hole in the condom my b/f of 3 years the person who ii love who so much what do u think i should do am i worng for thinking about takeing a abortion pill
2007-03-21 09:28:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you can take the morning after pill then I would make sure I get a hold of one (if you don't want to become pregnant)
Also, from now on...it might be a good idea to make it a habit of using contraceptives if you are not ready to become a parent
Second...your boyfriend broke one big thing when it comes to relationships and that is TRUST...
Why would he do such a thing? Is he even ready to have a family?
I would definitely re-consider about continuing on with the relationship. What he did has some possible serious consequences and he forgot to remember how YOU would feel if and when YOU become pregnant. It was very irresponsible and you don't want to spend the rest of your life...or even spend years of life (if you don't end up married) with someone who does not value important life morals and values such as trust and responsibility
Lastly, before making a decision about abortion...think about it first...this is a very big decision for any woman...think it through and make sure that whatever you decide...you have your heart and mind to back it up 100%
2007-03-21 09:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by amommyhbms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely want to reconsider being in a relationship with this person. for whatever reason in his head, he thought it was a good idea to put a hole in the condom, knowing the consequenses. that was a pretty sneaky and messed up thing to do, especially considering how old you are.
secondly, it is your decision whether to get an abortion or not. dont let ANYONES opinions or beliefs pressure you into making that decision because they're not the one's that are going to live with having an abortion or raising a child for the rest of their lives. you can have an abortion if you feel it is the right choice for you. if you dont feel that way but you do not feel you can raise this child, you have the option of giving up for adoption. there are many people that are very willing and able to give the baby a good home. if you feel that you want to keep this child and raise it, then seek help and support. just because your are the age you are, doesnt mean you wont be a good parent but i doesnt mean its going to be easy either! if you decide to keep the baby, just keep in mind you will have to make sacrifices, but if you find that support, you can still get ahead in life, accomplish your goals and your dreams. best of luck to you. and remember, ITS YOUR DECISION AND NO ONE ELSES.
2007-03-23 17:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by H P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would question whether you should keep seeing this guy. Plan B is created for situations like yours. You should think very seriously about it first, maybe talk to your mom or some other woman you can trust. You could even talk to someone at planned parenthood. But you should find out the risks and side effects before you take something like that.
It's a good idea to see about birth control, too. You can't go wrong using a back-up method!
2007-03-21 16:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kat H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for a baby? If yall love each other then together you and your boyfriend should sit down and make the decision. Remember once you take the pill there is no changing your mind so go through your choices carefully and good luck.
2007-03-21 16:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Dtwins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the morning after pill if you want to be safe.
And BREAK UP WITH THIS GUY!! You trusted him and he betrayed you.
2007-03-21 16:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would he do that? if you're old enough and ready to be with this person and start a family then just go with it.
2007-03-21 16:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by ANTSUN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋