I'm 21 and I just got married recently. Adults in my family keep telling me I should have kids soon because the longer I wait, the harder it will be for me to conceive. As far as I know, having a baby is difficult after 30-35 and I'm not going to be 30 for another 9 years! My guess is the adults in my family (meaning my parents) are just pressuring me to have kids so they can be grandparents, even though they already have 4 grandkids. Is there any truth to this, that it is harder to have kids the longer you wait? Me and my husband are planning on having our first probably by the time I'm 24 or so, so that we can have our whole family by 30, but that's just what we are planning, we'll see how it goes. Anyways, we're not ready to have a child right now, both of us are still very young and have to settle things in our own lives. Also, I'm not using any birth control pills, just protection.
2007-01-12
04:09:39
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