I've been married for 3+ years now, have a 40 month old son and a 14 month old son, both with my husband. We've used condoms FAITHFULLY since second child was born and somehow still got pregnant. I am 6 weeks along and I really have mixed emotions about this pregnancy. Husband has mental health issues that we've been dealing with since day one and has anger problems already with the stress of family life. He is getting help, and on medications but, I'm afraid that another child is going to agitate him even more. Our relationship has been on the rocks for years now because of his mental health issues and I'm afraid that I won't be able to take care of three kids by myself that close in age if we should ever break up. Plus, it sounds crappy, but I was finally losing some baby weight (25 lbs of the 85 lbs total that I gained between the two pregnancies) and now I can't diet anymore. Plus both of our families will kill us if we tell them we are expecting again. I'm 21 and hubby is 26.
2006-10-06
12:51:24
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