I think that I would choose the baby, but I think that the situation depends. If the baby dies, it's sad. If your partner dies, that's sad. I just want your ideas.
2006-10-06 06:15:19 · 17 answers · asked by slsampl13 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
The baby
2006-10-06 06:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the "mother" in this case should make the decision, and this is so complicated and open to interpretation but i will give you one scenario as a woman that i could see my husband thinking. If i were pregnant and it was me or the baby i know he would choose me not because he didn't love our child BUT because he knows hopefully we can have another child. I just know that is what he would think and i could accept that from him. Of course as a mother i would say i would ALWAYS give my life for my child. This all just depends and no one really knows what you will do in that situation, that's why these things should be left up to God. We don't have enough heart or common sense as human beings to make such an informed and important decision.
2006-10-06 06:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by ditchcrikets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a man had I had a wife that was pregnant I would choose my wife... We can try to have babies later on... But if the baby was already born... I think I would still choose my partner... if my child was older then I would choose my child... I know it sound bad but that my opinion
2006-10-06 06:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by maria * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no debate on this topic. I would choose my mate. The whole reason for having a baby is to share the love we have for each other with another (little) person. But if I chose a baby over my mate then what is that telling him? That I only need him as a babymaker? I pray to God everyday to allow us to be parents. But I also tell him that if it means losing my precious husband in order to have this child then I shall remain childless. I wouldn't give up my husband for ANYTHING or ANYONE in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 06:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by tammybaby67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be easy to say the one you made it with because you can always have more babies but the second you hold that baby you would never be willing to let it go so I pick the baby. my situation I would love to through the one I made them with under a bus for no reason so its easy for me the babies all the way
2006-10-06 06:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the situation calls for a choice I would take the baby. The one you made it with sounds like a loser.
2006-10-06 06:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by waggy_33 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any person that requires you to makes such a decision is the one that gets left behind.
depends on the situation. are you speaking if you had only one person to let live in a life or death situation, there is no right answer.
2006-10-06 06:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean who would we choose to die...
I would say my husband. If it were between him and our child, he would understand.
If it were the other waya round and he had to pick between me and our baby, I would hope that he would make the right decision and make sure the baby survives.
Love is strong but being a parent is stronger.
2006-10-06 06:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by s_sill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very tough question but I would pick the baby.
2006-10-06 06:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's such a tough question. I love my fiance the same way I love my son...unconditionally!
I wouldn't want to choose!
2006-10-06 06:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋