during periods. do men like that, iam afraid to ask my husband about this, i dont know whether he likes it or not
2006-10-06 06:43:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I am disgusted at some of the answers to this question! Some people are so immature!
Your period is a natual thing, and being aroused is natural too! You and your husband should have an open enough relationship that you can feel comfortable talking to him about this. If you don't then I would be more concerned about your relationship than I would be with having sex during your period! A long lasting, healthy relationship has open lines of communication between both partners, you need to be able to talk to each other about anything!
As to address your question more directly, some men do like it. My boyfriend now wants to please me, and I happy to be someone who loves sex. If I am on my period and I am horny (and so is he) then we have sex. What is important is that we both enjoy it, and are happy with each other. Talk to your husband, and be straight forward. He knows you have your period, it isn't a secret (trust me), and perhaps you will find out that he doesn't really mind.
And please, use protection, the chances are small, but you could still get pregnant.
2006-10-06 09:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by volcomchica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never safe to have sex during your period without protection if you do not want to conceive.
It is more unlikely that you will conceive but there is always a chance.
You should talk to your husband. There is nothing wrong with having intercourse during your period as long as you take precautions to not conceive.. for example.. condoms!
Some men love it because it adds extra lubricate and some men are completely disgusted by the sight and different smell of the blood.
You should talk to your husband and see what his view is of intercourse during your period.
2006-10-06 13:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by FerymayGirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is safe, it's just messy. My husband and I just lay down a towel. I know couples who just leave the tampon in. Do realize that, however unlikely, you could still get pregnant if you have intercourse during your period.
Whether your husband likes this or not: you should ask him. My husband doesn't really care one way or the other, but he's 24 and pretty happy no matter what. :-)
2006-10-06 13:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be able to ask him anything if he is your husband. Whats the worst he can say. No? Its perfectly safe to have sex during your period and some may like it, some may not. There is nothing wrong with it.
2006-10-06 13:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty it's something you should bring up, but not while in the bed. Some men are comfortable with it and some are'nt. If you want to know you should ask. But be subtle about it because it could creep him out and at the same time it might be a turn on...
2006-10-06 13:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by BigDaddySteven2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy though I suggest you should let your husband use condoms to protect him if you do coz blood is well treated as unsafe in the medical field. Also, I suggest since you are married, be open to your husband about it and talk to him about it... to have a great sex life each partner should be open in sharing thier thoughts with each other.
2006-10-06 14:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not married myself but i know for a fact that the key to any good relationship is communication...in marriage i believe we r in the times where there is liberty in expression about sexual issues. You should ask ur husband how he feels about it! i believe thats the best solution. And as far as i know, it is safe to have sex during ur periods, im not sure about the statistics on pregnancy occurence but i know its safe...its mostly an issue of perception(most cultures seem to portray this time as 'dirty').
2006-10-06 13:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by mouzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men care, and some don't..but let me tell you that the ones who say they DO care, well if they haven't gotten any booty in several weeks, they stop caring! Or if they're inebriated they don't care..until the next day! its totally safe, and if your husband feels too icky about it, you guys can always try it in the shower! Just get a step stool or chair and throw in the shower! Use your imagination-It works great.
2006-10-06 13:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have sex during a period, but pregnancy is still a possibility. my husband doesn't have a problem with it. i too was worried about that, but he assured me that it didn't bother him. the only way you'll find out for sure is to talk to him about it. all men are different.
2006-10-06 13:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Maddie and Jacobs mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man. Mine LOVES it. Every month he asks if I'll let him get his d_ck red. We just put down some plastic, with a towel over it to keep from making a mess, then we throw it all away afterward.
Some men freak out about it......but mine wants me so bad that bloody or not.........he's ready.
2006-10-06 16:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by lilac b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋