On Saturday I am being induced, my boyfriend wants his family in the waiting room.
I agreed yet wanted to notify the family that they will probably not be invited into the labour room, even in the hours before delivery. I am just a private person, it makes me uncomfortable.
Another thing that bothers me is the fact that he wants to take the baby out and pass her around within her first few hours of life.there will be 6-7 close family members that all want to hold her,
I have told my family that I cant promise that they will hold her that day, I just dont want her being passes around right away, that also makes me uncomfortable.
Although they were a little diappointed, they understand.
My boyfriend however, thinks I am being unreasonable.
Anyone want to share personal experiences?, anyone else feel this way?
2006-08-10
14:54:46
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