Adolescent - September 2007

2007-09-09 12:25:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to be different, and I want my creativity to show, but the problem is... My family doesn't have much money, and I want to do so many things with life before it's too late! I am still getting out of a deep depression that I've been in for about two years, so it's difficult, but I want to be creative and different. I wear glasses, and I really want contacts. I want to do things like dye my hair, get colored contacts, learn how to paint and to sculpt, and I really want to learn new things and ways to express myself! I'm only 13, so I still have some time, but all of the things I really want to do, I don't know how I can get done!

Help!?

2007-09-09 12:06:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

and now he told me that he feels very hurt and that he has trouble talking to me because he feels "weird". He knew that my parents didn't want me going out with him and I just told him that they found out. [Which they did]

When we first started going out a few months ago, every time he saw me he would tell me how much he loved me or how he hates everyone else except me. And when he looked at me, his eyes would look sorta...soft.

I feel really bad that I had to tell me that we couldn't go out anymore. He just sorta blew it off like yea sure whatever you want. I'm fine with that. And I was like well do you still like me? And he was like "well kinda. I just feel like you don't care about me anymore" Then I was like yes I do!

He was still looking at me with soft eyes today. What can I do to help us get over this together?

2007-09-09 11:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes when my mom sends me to the store to pick up a bag of pampers for my sister. If theres people from school that are there or a pretty girl who is working the cashier I get embarrassed my palms start to sweat my face turns red. I feel ashamed I dont understand it. Maybe someone out there does?

2007-09-09 09:30:52 · 11 answers · asked by jim v 1

I am dating a man that has "NO" control over his 14,and 15 year old sons and 19 year old daughter,the mother has passed away but there is no rules,grounding,the "ONLY"chores are loading the dish washer that all (3)take turns no other chores are made to do.The kids cuss on a day to day basis like its normal,the one 15 year old supposedly has a school phobia and doesn't go to school,he stays up all hours of the night gets high on his drugs and then slleps most of the day,Normal?The 14 year old gets suspended most of the year and his mouth is terrible,They have no bedtime,the 19 year old might work(cleaning houses)at the most 5-6 hours per day and thinks she has to sleep or run the streets the rest of the time and takes her brothers with her,shes the one buying the cigs and marijuana.would do you do if the father doesn't have control?I would love to see some justice such as the school making the one go but the father can't get him out of the house so he is allowed to stay at home?What's u

2007-09-09 08:43:59 · 16 answers · asked by jilybean 1

My teenage daughter and her friend sneaked out from the friend's house, drove with a teenage boy to another town, drank alcohol, and was caught by a highway patrolman who, luckily, is a local and just called the parents instead of hauling them in. To top it off, I had called her twice in the evening to make sure they had no plans (with the girl's parents of course) because my daughter had packed a "good" outfit and I found that odd if they were staying home. I should have listened to the little voice, but she assured me they weren't going anywhere.

She's been a good kid and this is her first real mistake, but it's a big one in my book. Especially since I've preached to her about driving with some who is drinking and drinking in general since there are quite a few alcoholics in our family. I'm just so mad I could spit nails.

I've taken her cell phone, cut her off from the home phone and she will going nowhere except to school and places WITH ME. What else?

2007-09-09 08:18:19 · 34 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2

okay im 13 and i keep thinking about having sex. i know its hormones but i feel like i really want to have sex. I know your supposed to wait til your married but idk if i can wait that long. it also seems like everyone at my school is doing it but not me help!!!

And you know what makes things so bad...whenever i do something like kiss a guy [not randomly] or flirt with someone my friends look at me and talk about me. its like no matter what i do im labeled like a slut. but when they do stuff its okay.

2007-09-09 07:22:44 · 37 answers · asked by browneyesz93 1

for the past two weeks i have been really upset
i have cried everyday for atleast a few hours
whenever i go out i feel alright
but when im at home i feel really lonely and just end up crying!
also i just keep having a go at people and snapping
is there anyway you can help keep hormones under controll?
oh and im 15
thanks
x

2007-09-09 06:47:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well, I am well past my teens, but man those were the days! Anyway, my older brother, and my sister-in-law, had their first child when they were 14 and 15. One of their children is pregnant, and she is only 16! I love my niece to death, and I would be there for her until the end of forever, it's just that I think that she made the wrong decision, and that she should have learned better from her parents' mistake. However, I do feel confident that she is mature enough, with the help of her fine boyfriend to raise this child. But this becoming an issue. Don't get me wrong, I believe that teen parents can be just as good as regular parents. I mean look at my brother and his wife, they are a success story. Why do a lot of people look down on teen parents, and feel superior to them? What is your opinion?

2007-09-09 05:51:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an arument with my girl. I told her she reminds me of the scarecrow on the wizard of oz and I told her Ive seen mosquito bites thats bigger then her breast. She told me I need to go back diapers?

2007-09-09 04:03:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, im 5ft 3 in tall weigh 120 pounds, and i turned 15 at the end of july. I was was wondering how tall i would be when im done growing.

(Im male)

my shoe size is 9.5 .is that ok for my height?


from age 12-14 i did not grow that much, (i dont know why)... in may of 2006 i was 4ft 11 in and now in sept. 2007 im 5ft 3

2007-09-08 18:21:50 · 12 answers · asked by DannyBo 2

okay so from thursday to tuesday my parents are going to las vegas. we're in chicago. so while they are gone i'm stuck with my older brother who is 18 (senior in high school). i'm only 12. i over heard him on the phone with one of his buddies a few hours ago saying that he was going to throw a "sick" party with his "homies" and a bunch of "chicks". who knows whats going to happen! and its going to be at our house! how do i handle this?

serious answers only please.

2007-09-08 17:21:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

like who cares if u cuss, they are just words. they dont even have a meaning like a cuss word is just any other word. i dont get wats so wrong about saying them.
and like wats so wrong about flicking people offf. its just a finger like any other on ur hand. they rnt even bad.

2007-09-08 15:16:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-08 13:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well im 15 & i was wondering how much money i should hide in my purse in case of emergencys our if i forgot my lunch money? I was thinking 3 dollars is that too little of an amount?Thanks for your help :)
Oh my school lunches our pretty cheap.

2007-09-08 13:19:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 12 year old litte (female) cousin just showed this website she visits everyday to my face

http://www.myspace.com/vanessahudgens...
"But with all her success Vanessa remains grounded. Knowing her High School Musical success has left her with a slew of loyal fans, she takes the responsibility of being a role model seriously. "Kids look up to the wrong people these days, not knowing right from wrong. I am honored to know kids are looking up to me".

WHAT A HYPOCRITE!

FAKER!

My poor cousin and I don't have any siblings, im like her big bro and she's hella devestated by this thing, I feel bad for her.

is this how a role model supposed to be, be sexually involved with your significant other???

And people say she's doing it in private...SO??? that means what she says about herself (And how she acts) In pubic

is untrue AND FAKE

SHE'S LIVING A DOUBLE LIFE while being a "role model" to kids

HOW AUDACIOUS MUST SHE BE to do something like that

she's not 21, she's 18, barely an adult!

2007-09-08 05:36:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's really pretty and hot. And she's not like most of the cheerleaders with the snotty attitude, she's actually really nice. I have three classes with her. In one class I sit beside her and we talk sometimes, but most of the time the other guys around her are talking to her. On the first day of school I opened the door for her and she gave me the sweetest smile ever! Then yesterday I asked her if she wanted to go to homecoming with me and she said she was already going with somebody else and it hurt but oh well. What should I do? I would probably never get a chance because she's real popular and I'm only a reciever on the football team.

2007-09-08 05:29:50 · 8 answers · asked by Justin P 1

im 17 and a virgin but i want to do it so bad. im a quiet girl and no one expects me to do anything like "having sex" but i really want to for the simple fact that i want a baby.

2007-09-08 05:12:00 · 30 answers · asked by Daijapoo 1

2007-09-08 02:15:54 · 12 answers · asked by centralian 2

i'm not on the pill at the moment, if i had intercourse with somebody wearing a condom.. would i be at risk of getting pregnant? should we wait until i'm on the pill and use both?
ugh.

2007-09-08 01:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had sex wiz my boyfriend for the first time about 1 month ago till then after that we didnt really get the chance to have sex again... Now we had sex again but it still pains as it did for the first time i mean it still hurts me and it was very difficult to put his penis in my vagina... I wanna know why is it like this is this normal...

2007-09-08 01:46:12 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2

so im 16 and my bf is almost 18. weve had sex im regreting it now but i know that its to late now.
but weve done it unprotected quit a few times now and ive missed my period this month. im extremly scared. he asked if i was would i keep it. i told him yes because i dont beleive in abortion. i asked him what his decision would be. he told me that it has nothing to do with him thtas all the mothers decision. if i am i couldnt tell my parents, im mormon and they beleive in waiting til marriage, idk how they would react. im so scared though. if i am idk what im going to do. i told him no more unprotected though(possibly im just going to stop it all together) what should i do?? please help. theres not really an adult i can talk to about this.

2007-09-07 18:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think condom is the best? Do women feel satisfaction if a men use condom,I mean cause they wouldn't have direct touch. Or maybe natural prevention is better? What do you think?

2007-09-07 18:40:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 16:08:45 · 45 answers · asked by blah. 2

ok...so im 14 and ive been gettin these calls foir about a week and its this GUY who says hes 35 and wants me. It makes me feel uncmfortable and akward....HOW DO I GET THEM TO STOP!!!!!???????????????

2007-09-07 14:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by hunsie\ jim 1

I am 14. I am trying to show my dad that I am mature. What should my bedtime be?

2007-09-07 11:02:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went shopping at pathmark with my older sister. My mother wasnt feeling well she didnt want to take me. My sister left me alone with the cart. Her cell phone ringsI It was her boyfriend bobby.Who I dont like he is an asshole he pulled down my sweat pants last week in front of some girls at a balfield trying to be a bigshot in front of his friends. I was embarrass the girls laughed at me making jokes at me. I pick it up the phone I told him she wasnt here at the moment before I got to say anything else.He yells at me and says you better get her right now you little diaper dick. I told him thats gonna be hard to do shes in the doctors office confirming her pregnancy test and Im in the lobby now then hung up on him.laughing my *** off. My sister came back didnt tell her about the call. we went home I went out for a while got back walked in the front door. All hell broke loose my sister went after me. I figured she heard what I did. I have to make an apology to him If I dont Im grounded.

2007-09-07 06:08:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday me and 3 of my friends was just chilling out at my house in the back yard. nobody was home one of my friends went up stairs to use the bathroom. went into the baby room and was throwing out of the window his huggies. we were dunking them in the pool and shooting hoops with them. we went thru 2 bags of them only leaving 4 left. my sister came home saw what we did. she called my mom got into serious trouble called us a bunch of babies. I have 5 days to replace the diapers. I told her it wasnt me that was throwing them out of the window it was my friend she didnt care she said I was part of it. why should I get blame what my friends started let him pay for it .she took away my games and skate board. If i dont replace them my sister will give me the beaten of my life. I dont want to pay for this!!!.. Any advice? We did leave 4 diapers left lol

2007-09-06 23:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello folks,
i am 16 turn 17 in february, anyways I am A Highschool Drop out i got out 2 years ago u should already know i am a kid that coudnt take school especially becuase i even went to continuation school,but Dont worry i know what i want with my future and ill be successful becuase i have talent,but thats not the point.the dea is that right now i want a job becuase i need some cash so i was wondering at my age right now would i be able to get a job at THE MALL(The mall i know you have to be 18 years old to work at some stores,but what stores can i work) or grocery store like (99 cents store EcT.)or fast food places..
Or Anywhere You Think They Can Hire Me,I really ant To Work Like At The Mall Do Becuase Is Really Close Can Take The Bus There..
I am Planning To Get My GED in 2009 And Have A Car And License And Move Out.
But I Wanna Get My As.s. Working Right Now Since I Dont Go To School So Where Do You Think They ll Hire A 16 year old drop out loser?
Thanks Guys Hope U Guy

2007-09-06 20:14:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, first things first - she's 13 years old, 50" tall, weighs 70 pounds, and rides in a Britax Regent.
The height limit for the Britax Regent is 53" and the weight limit is 80 pounds - she is well within the limits for both height and weight.

However, she's also 13 years old.
This is a picture of her seat, with the actual cover that hers has: http://www.elitecarseats.com/assets/product_images/alternate/300/100245MADISON00.jpg
It is currently installed in the middle of the back seat - why? Because that's the safest place in the car.

The reason I have her harnessed is for safety... Some of you may have seen these videos on youtube:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=azgBhZfcqaQ
and
http://youtube.com/watch?v=y2LFo8vVi04

Both of those children were killed in accidents. I've been aware of the added safety provided by a 5pt harness for ages, thus the reason she rids in a harnessed seat.

However, is it worth it at 13 years old?

2007-09-06 19:20:30 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous