I went shopping at pathmark with my older sister. My mother wasnt feeling well she didnt want to take me. My sister left me alone with the cart. Her cell phone ringsI It was her boyfriend bobby.Who I dont like he is an asshole he pulled down my sweat pants last week in front of some girls at a balfield trying to be a bigshot in front of his friends. I was embarrass the girls laughed at me making jokes at me. I pick it up the phone I told him she wasnt here at the moment before I got to say anything else.He yells at me and says you better get her right now you little diaper dick. I told him thats gonna be hard to do shes in the doctors office confirming her pregnancy test and Im in the lobby now then hung up on him.laughing my *** off. My sister came back didnt tell her about the call. we went home I went out for a while got back walked in the front door. All hell broke loose my sister went after me. I figured she heard what I did. I have to make an apology to him If I dont Im grounded.
2007-09-07 06:08:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your sister's boyfriend deserved what he got. Way to get right back into his loser face for what he did to you! Yet, in order to keep the peace in your house, I suggest you follow your mother's advice, and apologize. Do it for your mom and your sister, or else learn to live at odds with your sister.
2007-09-07 08:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by souldoctor 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would make it a point that she listens to you regarding the things that he does to you. And I would make it another point to not be anywhere around him.
If he has not one fear for actually touching your body to pull down your pants, joke or no joke, he may actually one day take it a step too far and actually hurt you.
Although I totally like what you did to get him back, I think it was much more clever to do what you did, than to actually pull someones pants down.
Shows he has NO imagination and you are very very smart.
And, I would rather take the grounding.
But, that is just me.
2007-09-15 02:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I would take the grounding personally..
how old are you and how old is your sister?
it is important that your relationship with your sister is fixed but as they are family and they are the only people in your life that are going to be there for all of it, in that way it is like a marriage but one that can not be broken by a court. but as for him i think you got him with what he deserved so i would not worry about it too much. Just do what you have to and get on with life
2007-09-15 00:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was it wrong? The jury is still out on that one. Was it funny? Yes. If I was either one, yes, i would be mad at you too, but since it wasn't true, I would watch your back, because I would definatly seek revenge, even though you got the boyfriend back for what he did, the sister owes you now.
As far as appoligizing or being grounded, well, that is up to you. You could tell the guy that you are sorry for making a joke. basically appologize for it on your terms, and turn it into something else.
2007-09-07 06:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by George P 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am ashamed to admit it but I think was you did was pretty funny. I realize you did because you were pissed off at the moment, however you sister became a victim in the joke. I would apolgize to your sister and than talk to her with your mom regarding how your sister boyfriend treats you. You don't deserve to be embrassed, teased, or harrassed by anybody regardless of who they are.
2007-09-07 08:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Americka S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don;t apologise to him, but to your folks. Say what you think about him and what he did to you. Even if you get grounded, DON'T apologise to such a person that embarrashed you so much!What you did was not wrong. Say it was a trick you played on him. He may come in your position, if you make your folks through to see him from your point of view. Hope this is useful
2007-09-15 00:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by RandomChildishWall 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice...Normally I would not agree with something like this, but your story made me laugh. If you have to apologize to him do it. You could say something like... I'm sorry I lied to you, but it really made me mad when you called me diaper dick. I won't lie to you again about my sister being pregnant. That way your mom can hear you apologize and can hear that he started the whole thing.
2007-09-07 06:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by arobe80 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You're creative!!!
what you did will make your sister's bf realize not to mess with you!!! and that's cool!!!
Now call it even and make that apology. At least the apology will be sencere, knowing that you're even!!!
Another positive thing here...they'll be very careful not to get your sister pregnant.
2007-09-12 13:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by bibo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
appoligize to your sister because she is an innocent victim.
but i am sooo imature so dont listen to what i am about to say. or do but dont do it.
from what you discribes, this guy is a jerk. dot appoligize to him and take the grounding.
it is worth it. i mean the fact that u got revenge is great. your gonna get punnished anyway.
being a catholic you think i would say appoloigize. wow! even i suprize my self some times
2007-09-07 07:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Catholic 14 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
just apologize, to your sister that she has such a butt for a bf and tell the bf that youll stay grounded for a yr first before you apologize to him... this is from a mom of a 18 yr old good luck because if i was your mom the daughter and bf would be apologizing to you
2007-09-14 11:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by jay m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋