My ex & I share my 12 year old son.My ex is trying to relive his horribly misspent youth by entering our son in every sport that becomes available (& offering to coach/assistant coach), so they overlap each other & he has to drop some games/matches sometimes.My son enjoys at least 2 of the sports, but 4/5 per school year is excessive & it is affecting his grades.However, we will have to go back to court for anything to change, & my ex comes off as pillar of community in court who does no wrong as a father, although has never held a job & lets the wife do the parenting outside of sports.My question is..has anyone ever dealt with having to try to schedule vacations around sports schedules, and how much notice is fair notice of practices, etc? I mean, do I have to cancel my vacation with my son if practices pop up 24-48 hours prior to us leaving as has happened in the past?Also, ex has planned this intentionally before & was unaware I was standing behind him when he said it. (legally? VA)
2007-02-27
05:03:46
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Candy D
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