What should you expect on your first time having sex?

Answer 1

Expect it to be better the second time, lol! Seriously; some people have this bs idea that your first time is supposed to be all magical or special or some other nonsense. The truth is, it'll probablly be a little awkward; it's probably going to hurt a little (or a lot, depending on your body, everybody is different.) About 40% of women have some bleeding their first time. And, you could be a little sore for a few days after; then again, you might not be.

Like most things, practice makes perfect (or at least really, really good,) so don't worry too much about it your first time. The important things are to relax, enjoy yourself, go slow (don't let some idiot boy tell you it hurt less if you stick it in fast—that's totally retarded.) Have good communication with your partner and be comfortable and happy—and look forward to more fun than you'd have imagined possible, once you get the hang of it!

Answer 2

Hopefully its with someone you love...but I must say the first time is way over hyped

Answer 3

it onli hurts a little bit but i was drunk the first time do it with some one who you lve its so much better trust me you get butterflys its so much better babe x

Answer 4

Excitement, and nervousness, and possibly anxiety, its
important to relax.

Answer 5

it's great if you take your time with plenty of foreplay and lube and have an experienced partner.

Answer 6

Ummmm.. ive had sex like ten times... n it it is kind of painful the first time n its kind of uncomfortable.. but then once u get used to it saddle that ***** up n ride it into the sunset.. in that was just the first time all the other times ..//..................////////////.................................................................................................(i was asleep)

Answer 7

it will hurt you will bleed and hope he knos what he is doing cause if he dont you could get hurt bad

Answer 8

let me tell you sister i lost it when i was 18 n it hurts like hell! please wait till your with someone who care enough to take it slow with you. especially if your young. Its gunna hurt. alot.

Answer 9

That depends how much 3rd base practice you have had... the more things like the girl being licked out, or sucking guy off, or boob sex, getting each other off with fingers etc etc...


The more realaxed you will be when you do, do it.


And more confortable seeing partner nakedna dnthm seeing you naked.

therefore less tense and less painful.


its normally messy, hurts the girl a bit and stressful... the way I suggest will be best


You don’t have to go all the way yet.

Lots more fun to get good at with boyfriend and best before you take everything to full on sex level get good at all this...

3rd base and all subsections...


ie lots of hands down pants stuff.

ie get good at getting finger jobs, giving hand jobs, boobie jobs, him giving you lick jobs, you giving him blow jobs...

Unless sperm gets in or on your vagina these won't get you pregnant (see below as not rics free ie sperm on fingers or drops and dribbles in wrong spot)


The purpose of this is like getting used to seeing each other naked and been seen naked... is to get much more used to each other and dealing with the feelings involved with more advanced sex activities.

Also with giving him hand jobs and other... lots of practice with condoms and seeing that they are not completely safe ie getting sperm on fingers as you take them of or drops coming off his now creamy willy.

Also helps before you go all the way to get good at foreplay... both of you so all nicely warmed up and making it part of boning each other... and doing this in various spots...

Ie the 5 min blow between train stations... with stopwatch and alarm.


This will take a bit longer for you to get fully sexual but be much better.


also


www.ruthinking.org.uk

www.childline.org.uk

www.4yp.co.uk

www.fpa.org.uk

www.brook.org.uk

http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/


www.drugscope.org.uk

www.lifeline.org.uk

www.talktofrank.com


Ask those whose job it is to answer these things ho tell you the truth.

Not your mates or any tom dick or Harry here.

That’s like asking a Hairdresser how to fix you cars breaks

Ie can a girl get pregnant during her period?

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/whenpregoccur.htm


http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn3927

Truth is yes especially if you are a teenager whose cycles may not have stabilised. Though most guys would be like euuuuw

Sperm stays around for a week inside you and sometimes especially teen girls have multiple ovulations or varying cycles.



Whilst at it

You can also get pregnant is the guy pulls out as

A) Guys in teens come in seconds with no control, be even if they *** over your vagina it still works (see below)

B) Willies as soon as still leak drops of sperm to moisturise and lubricate the willy... Guy can't feel them but each drop contains millions of sperm, one will do the trick. When he comes its billions instead that’s all.

2) You can’t get pregnant from a BJ unless you spit it out onto you fingers or other item which touches you down there

3) Anything oil based i.e. chocolate or ice cream makes tiny holes in condom rubber like acid that sperm can get through in seconds. (Polyurethane ones like Durex Avanti are immune to them)

4) IMPORTANT

ANY way ANY sperm get on, in or near you vagina can get you pregnant... sperm swims in wet environments and can swim across your thigh and into your vagina. If it’s wet its alive outside the body. If the guy spills drops, drips, humps your leg and cums near, on you belly and it dribbles down on you butt even in it and it dribbles out and down between you legs, is wiped,

You sit on a 'wet patch' he comes on you panties and it goes through the material (well are they rubber? if water gets through so does ***).

Or on fingers say when he took the condom off and got some on fingers and did not wash his hands or willy after.


ALL can get you pregnant... So it’s smart to get on the patch, injection or implants... Follow the instructions i.e. certain drugs, medicines, vitamins like antibiotics or St Johns worth will stop it working temporarily.

But won’t stop STDs which you can get from oral sex if cuts or ulcers in mouth (likewise herpies from cold sores) or eye contact say touching eyes.


And as blood borne say STDs can come from first aid or open wounds say in sports or an accident.


So still wear condoms as well.


And practice using them as it’s not as easy as it sounds. One **** up and life ****** up.

No extra lives.

And practice getting morning after pills ie where to go so you know and on a sunday or say xmas day.

AND IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG AND YOU THINK THERE IS A-N-Y DANGER OF GETTING PREGNANT YOU DO N-O-T WASTE TIME ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS HERE OR WITH YOUR MATES OR THINK WE'LL BE OK...


YOU
GET
YOU
BUTT
TO
GET
A MORNING AFTER PILL

95% gonner work if taken within 24 hours (so don’t wait and ask questions here and on a Sunday or say xmas day go to hospital) that’s 5% you going to get pregnant

25-48 hours (two days and nights)
Its only 85% efficets that’s 15 % chance you will get pregnant

After 2 days its only 58% effective (much like flipping a coin)

You may be able to get a IUD coil as well.

IN OTHER WORDS NO QUERSTIONS ON COULD I BE PREGNANT… GO AND GET THE DAMN PILL OR BETTER STILL HAVE SOME IN THE HOUSE JUST IN CASE… BUT ITS FOR EMERGENCIES…

Proper contraception is better ie depro injections AND condoms.

THAT NIGHT OF FOLLOWING MORNING EVEN IF BUNKING OFF SCHOOL OR WORK... TRUST ME BRING PROOF AND THEY WILL THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.

EVERY HOUR COUNTS...