Adolescent - November 2006

2006-11-29 06:05:16 · 15 answers · asked by 509 girlz in this place 2 b 2

I have always felt that due to my adolescent years and the crap I took in High school that Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold were heros. Yes they did something horrid in Columbine and yes they went out of control but then no one would stop the others from harassing and pciking on them. Cassie Bernall clearly did not know Jesus or she would have done much more to help these two sad men before it was too late.

Am I in the wrong here? Or do others agree with me?

2006-11-29 05:25:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-29 05:11:11 · 52 answers · asked by mom e 1

she has so much attitude recently especially since starting secondary school, always seems to talk back, why is this?

2006-11-29 05:01:40 · 28 answers · asked by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3

I need someone's advice ..please?
So this guy that i was seeing got me pregnant and we already discussed about me getting the abortion, he said he'd be there to take care of me because i was taking medical pill abortion option. so i would go through pain like a miscarriag,. he hasn't been there for me and has been ignoring my phone calls...first excuse was that he got a DUI so he has to do community service, pay 5 grand and then he calls me later and tells me to call him tommorow and that he will be there to come hang out with me and take care of me. So i call him and he doesnnt pick up and never calls me back........he seems nervous lately.
he owes me half of the money that i paid for the abortion. which is only 300 . he said he'd pay me back. i figured it's not a big deal since hes quite wealthy.
I DON'T know what is wrong with him though.
what should i do?
did he just like freak out all of the sudden?

THANK YOU
for reading this.

2006-11-29 05:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by ~*SagiTTarius*~ 1

2006-11-29 03:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by alejandra24fl 1

im a teenager

2006-11-29 03:35:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are in a small town, kinda' new, and my son is 12yr. The other parents here say the kid he hangs out with I shouldn't let him see, it's his best friend, and I haven't caught them doing anything, I get scared my mom and my best friend will find out I let them play together and get lectured, If I feel my son is safe, isn't it my decision that counts? Why do I even give a **** what they think?

2006-11-29 03:19:24 · 11 answers · asked by tamilynn 3

We have a 14 yr old son who is wearing me out completely. He fights everything: doing his routine(does whatever he feels like doing that day), chores(tries to negotitate them, has to be reminded, then does it half a*sed), getting to his homework (avoids, then does a half a*sed job, have to sit on him to get grades), practicing his instrument (I've been playing for years, I don't need to practice!), doing anything he is told. Example: I want to see that test from your teacher tom. Him the next day: I left it in my locker/forgot it/it's soemwhere in my room etc. Everything he is asked to do, he will try and negotiate out of it. He talks back CONSTANTLY, the only time he hears anything is when he's eavesdropping--and this happens CONSTANTLY. I know this sounds tedious, but living it is even worse. I have tried reward systems, cleaning out his room and giving it back one at a time, therapy, etc. My husband wants to spank him, I don't beleive in spanking and never have spanked.

2006-11-29 03:07:20 · 14 answers · asked by donewiththismess 5

2006-11-29 02:56:31 · 6 answers · asked by dewbellows2004 1

I have an 11 year old daughter who has developed a new habit of disrespecting me. She talks back to me, doesn't do chores, ignores me when I'm calling her, and makes comments such as "Are you always such a nag?" on a daily basis. I have never spanked my daughter and do not find that an option. I have been a single mother throughout her life and have tried to provide her with all that she needs. I am going through a difficult time trying to gain control back in the household. Do you have any advice on how I can remedy the disrespectful attitude?

2006-11-29 02:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15. Presentation= hate. so yea. And I hate candy.

2006-11-29 01:33:38 · 17 answers · asked by K 3

2006-11-29 01:13:35 · 25 answers · asked by Mira B 1

My wife and I have recently taken custody of a 12 year old girl whose mother passed away from cancer. It has only been 2 weeks since the death. Should we start to "lay down the law" with her now. Or should we ease into the rules. She is a good kid but she is also a 12 year old kid ('nuff said there). We have been having a hard time getting her to do the small things that we have asked her, such as taking care of HER cat and picking up after herself. Considering that she has spent the last year more or less locked inside of a 2 bedroom flat playing nursemaid to her mother, should we be stricter or back off a bit. It is a tough call, any advise would be helpful. (Before we get going FAQ's, 1. Yes she is in Therapy, 2. She will be starting school again next week after a years absence, 3. Her suviving family members are not decent enough to care for her (no father) and 4. She is bi-racial b/w and we are both white)

2006-11-28 20:38:43 · 23 answers · asked by rswdew 5

Here's a story...
This guy I know is my best friend.
I love him.
He loves me.
Of course, the nice story doesn't end there.
I'm only 14- my parents said I could date this specific guy when I was 15. (Just cause he's really a great guy- my parents agree and have met him several times)That happens in 5 months.
The problem is that I'm not sure my parents will really let us "date" when I'm 15. (I think that includes being able to go to movies without my brother inbetween, holding hands, kissing sometimes (not constantly)... Occasional dinner...etc.)
Is that too much to ask at this age?
The guy is 16, super respectful, and has shown it by his patience... He's already been waiting to be able to date me for about a year and 2 months. I've known him for like a year and a half.
What do you think is appropriate?

(A little about me: I'm 14- But don't let numbers fool you- I'm Sophmore in Algebra 2, top of my class. I'm extremely mature and have so far have a good relationship with my parents.)

2006-11-28 18:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by Lauren 2

2006-11-28 16:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by dkx13 1

I like this boy and he says he doesn't like me, except during school he waves to me, smlies at me and just plain talks to me. He asked if I like him and I said no. Could he like me more then a friend? And should I tell him I like him even though he says he doesn't like me?

2006-11-28 15:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

iv been struggling really bad trying to get over mine its so hard for me i act like i havent had one but then i think an when im home alone i get really upset about it? i dont no how to move on?

2006-11-28 15:31:41 · 24 answers · asked by hott redd 1

my friend is pregnant for the 3rd time again and the first 2 she had an abortion and now she dont no what to do she told me but she dont want me to tell anyone but if she keeps this one they are going to no the only people that no is her boyfriend me and my sister she is 14 she told me everything and she said everytime they had sex, they used a condom but it broke and they didnt stop she told me because i was pregnant one time 2 but i had an abortion also i have no idea what to do and i also told my mom and she dont want to

2006-11-28 15:24:48 · 11 answers · asked by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2

k my friend she told my so called x asked him if he ever went out wit me and told her no and he told me i was a f****ng liar and got mad at me and now he hates me!

2006-11-28 14:44:42 · 14 answers · asked by short stuff 4

me and my girlfriend are both virgins.. but lately we have been talking about having sex... i am willing but she doesnt know if she can trust a condom... what should i do? i really wanna do it but i want her to want to as well...

2006-11-28 14:32:33 · 13 answers · asked by bullpup07 1

I am only 16 yrs old.I am aware that i am still very young and have a future ahead.But my problem is that i hate school.Maybe its that i am not trying hard enought but i just hate it so much.What i want to do in life does not require history or Science!I want to be a cosmetologist.If that doesnt work out i want to be a hair dresser.I want to drop put and start right away in Blames or a school that can help me with that.The problem is that i want to tell my parents i just dont know how.I know its going to be dissapointing but they will get over it.I dont want you guys to tell me to stay in school because thats not exacly the answer i was looking for i was looking or a way to tell my parents i want to drop out.If i drop out now I can probably have the carreer i want by the time my classmates finish highschool.I will get a job of course.I get really bad grades becuase im just not interested in what the teachers are teching. I just want to get out and start with something im going to love!

2006-11-28 14:24:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a lesbian and I have a girlfriend she lives here with me and my family we are planning on getting a place after christmas but..before me and her I was crushing on someone else and im still talking to that other girl I really like her a lot and im not sure what to do

2006-11-28 14:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by awesome_chick2009 2

ive been trying to tell her that shes too young but she wont listen. im scared for her. i love like a sister, i dont want her to get hurt. what do i do?

2006-11-28 14:15:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

IM 15 ABOUT TO TURN 16 AND ME BOYFRIEND IS ABOUT TO TURN 23 NEXT YEAR. BUT HE WANTS TO HAVE A BABY. CAN MY MOM CALL THE COPS ON HIM?? BECAUSE I DONT WANT HER TO CALL THE COPS. WHAT IF I SAY THAT I WANTED TO GET PREGNANT ALSO WITHOUT HIM PRESSURING ME?? PLEASE HELP ME OUT???

2006-11-28 14:03:11 · 30 answers · asked by La Guera 1

2006-11-28 13:59:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've got a $5 allowence and i'm 13! i need some more money! i'm a girl but i like to do work so yeah. HELP ME!

2006-11-28 13:43:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-28 13:41:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ppl keep mistaking me for dominican republic ...im not even spanish. they say my accent sounds spanish and because my hair is long and nice texture and im brown skin. well i do take a spanish class and im really good, so ppl think im spanish. but im not spanish. and my friends are starting to get mad that im not telling ppl the truth that im not. i never told them i was. i just never told them i wasnt is that bad or not?

2006-11-28 13:13:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends keep being mean.they are emailing me rude things and making fun of me cause im not friends with them anymore. and i know this is bad,but i remembered my friend carlies email password. so i got into her email and she was gossiping about me and saying rude things. carlie was my best friend and she ditched me for rylee. but when i saw those emails i just wanted to tell her off,but yet it makes me miss her more. her and rylee were sending me mean things,but when i went into her email i couldnt find the emails the sent me. and the emails didnt sound much like carlie,more like rylee. im thinking that rylee sent me those emails and then deleted it or carlie did it herself and then deleted it. im not sure but i cannot stand it anymore. i need help before i blow on somebody. and im 12.

2006-11-28 12:48:14 · 7 answers · asked by heat1395 2