me and my girlfriend are both virgins.. but lately we have been talking about having sex... i am willing but she doesnt know if she can trust a condom... what should i do? i really wanna do it but i want her to want to as well...
2006-11-28 14:32:33 · 13 answers · asked by bullpup07 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Condoms AND birth control. While getting those, get tested and learn about std's.
Then before sex or anything sexual, discuss pregnancy and discuss std's.
Then decide of you two should engage in sex.
Until then, let hormons be hormons. Never act if you do not know and not prepare.
2006-11-28 14:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do research about this online, but I believe "when used properly" the success rate (ie preventing pregnancy) is in the 90-99% range. That's certainly not perfect. Probably best to pair with a spermicidal (ie gel that kills sperm.)
Make sure that you are really ready for this before you proceed. This isn't just physical. There are people's emotions and feelings involved, and once you do it, you can't un-do it.
Let alone the possibility of STDs, pregnancy, etc.
It's a major decision. Take your time.
2006-11-28 14:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Shars 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...If a condom is put on right, it is very effective...Maybe your g/f should have her mom put her on some kind of birth control, ya kno just in case...It's better to be safe than sorry...Before you do have sex tho, have ur g/f put the condom on you to make sure there are no holes, rips, ect...Good Luck, Be Safe, And Have Fun..!!!
2006-11-28 16:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a condom is used correctly it is between 96 and 98 percent effective at preventing pregnancy. Make sure you know how to use it correctly, one of the biggest mistaked guys make is assuming that just slipping it on is using it correctly.
2006-11-28 14:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have great empathy for people who unnecessarily suffer the pressure of devirginising in a sexually-liberated society. If you're a virgin, you're a loser and you cannot brag about it at the next poker game or you're next 6-pact fest.
Can I let you in on a secret? If you're curious, sex is no big deal. 10 minutes for some and that's it.
Sex and true love is worth the wait. Trust me. ITs ok to be a virgin.
2006-11-28 15:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by tomQ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
condoms are a good choice, and I am glad that you are talking about it first. But you guys really need to use something else too. My husband and I were having sex before we got married, actually we were trying to conceive just before we got married, but before that we used condoms and birth control pills.
2006-11-28 18:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ought to nicely be o.k. to do both. be particular to carry onto the bottom of the condom once you do pull out both earlier or after ejaculation because in case you do not, the condom can slip off. when you will be employing lubricants, ascertain that you do use a sturdy water depending lubricant not something oil depending. something straightforward must be tremendous mutually with KY liquid and evade the warming stuff until eventually your female friend has had somewhat extra experience.
2016-11-27 20:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Com are safe towards STD's.However, condoms can get you pregnant if broken.
2006-11-29 00:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Creshonna P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre not that affective. theyre like 98%
but 2% is still a big chance!
2006-11-28 16:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0% safe
2006-11-28 14:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by la naca 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋