Im a lesbian and I have a girlfriend she lives here with me and my family we are planning on getting a place after christmas but..before me and her I was crushing on someone else and im still talking to that other girl I really like her a lot and im not sure what to do
2006-11-28 14:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by awesome_chick2009 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I would say follow you heart, it never leads you down the wrong path.
2006-11-28 14:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by blackluckof13 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference from being in love with someone and just crushing on a person. If you are in love with your girlfriend..u need to leave the puppy love crush alone. Your head may be telling yo to go with the crush but in the end love rules all and you need to follow your heart.
But if you feel that you can obviously build a better life with the crush...better than you have with your girlfriend...then you should do it.
2006-11-29 12:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mysterious Lez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's not really important to say you're a lesbian (I have nothing against them, it's just not really important in this situation). And if you were just crushing on the person before, then you shouldn't go to the other. And you have to choose. You have a...um....partner and you shouldn't go start associating with others that u have feelings for.
PS: You're sorta in the wrong category.
2006-11-29 23:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lolaaaa! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow what you believe in your heart for sure. If you move in with the current girl and still want the other you could lose both relationships. Pick before you take big steps. Good Luck to you! :)
2006-11-28 22:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your girlfriend? Because it sounds like you are "crushing" over the other. If you are not ready to commit I wouldn't be moving in together until you can figure things out. Good luck.
2006-11-28 22:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by plharg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a crush is just that.... it's a crush.
Do you have a connection with this girl you are living with?
Follow your own instincts. If you feel like you should be with your crush, then break up w/ your gf before you move in with her. If you feel like you are more compatible with your gf, then keep your crush as an acquaintance
good luck :)
2006-11-29 07:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥sweet♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with yourself and your partner. If you really want a relationship with your current girlfriend you need to ignore and move past your feelings for the other girl.
Good luck and be happy.
2006-11-28 22:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be a lesbian anyway.. thats just wrong
thats not how God made us to be
you should be with a man.
im TOTALLY against the whole gay/lesbian thing
ask God for help. hes always listening.
sorry if i sounded harsh.
2006-11-29 13:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I've been told to never leave the one you love for the one you like, b/c the one you like could leave you for the one they love, then your stuck with no one to love...All I can tell you is to follow your heart and hopefully it will lead you in the right direction...!! Good Luck..!!
2006-11-29 01:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, your not ready. You will just create problems for each other. This is applicable whether your gay, straight or neither.
2006-11-28 22:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Fred B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋