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IM 15 ABOUT TO TURN 16 AND ME BOYFRIEND IS ABOUT TO TURN 23 NEXT YEAR. BUT HE WANTS TO HAVE A BABY. CAN MY MOM CALL THE COPS ON HIM?? BECAUSE I DONT WANT HER TO CALL THE COPS. WHAT IF I SAY THAT I WANTED TO GET PREGNANT ALSO WITHOUT HIM PRESSURING ME?? PLEASE HELP ME OUT???

2006-11-28 14:03:11 · 30 answers · asked by La Guera 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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Well you should not won't to have a baby while your still in school but if you do your mother can call the police but he can not go to jail if you say you allowed him to do what ever and when ever and if you won't to have a baby make sure he will take care if his child and be a good father and make sure be a good mother to your child and if you do have a baby make sure you finish school. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-29 01:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Creshonna P 2 · 0 1

short and sweet, your mom can and should call the cops on him. He IS pressuring you to have a baby, why will he not wait a few years at least and marry you first, not that that seems to mean all that much anymore. It is illegal and it is statutory rape even if you are consenting to the sex.
Get out of that "relationship" right away. There is something seriously wrong with it.

If I was your mother I would call the cops the first chance I got.

2006-11-28 18:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Yes she can call the cops and I agree that they should be called. A 22 year old has no business being with a 15 year old much less wanting a baby with one neither one of you are mature enough to handle having a baby. You need to be with someone your own age.

2006-11-28 17:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by kutiepie73401 2 · 3 0

Your mom should call the cops on him anyway, he's too old for you. Why would you want to get pregnant at 15? Your still a kid yourself. A 22 year old guy dating a 15 year old child is not right.

2006-11-28 14:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Yes she can call the cops on him!!! It doesn't matter if you wanted anything! You are not old enough. Girl, if I could I would tell your mother right now! I was 14 when I had my first child. Don't do it!! You shouldn't even be that deep into a relationship at this age. You should be going to the movies, high school ball games, and to the mall with your friends. Not to mention getting ready for college.

2006-11-28 14:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 3 0

Girl stop!... If I was ya mama I would tear your *** up! But yes she can call the police on you. It's this little thing called stagetory rape (or however you spell that). Shouldn't you be focused more on school instead of being with a 22 year old??? Anyways, Girl don't go and mess your life up. He may say he wants a baby now, but later on in life he might get out, and you're left taking care of the baby. So if you don't listen to anything else I say, just listen to this: DON'T GET PREGNANT!!! You don't want to experience that at a young age! How about you wait 6 or 7 more years... ;)

2006-11-28 14:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 7 0

I can completely understand why your mother feels this way. You're not ready for a child at the age of 16. Getting pregnant would ruin your life as well as the life of your child. Furthermore, your boyfriend must be a dimwit, because if he gets you pregnant, he can still be convicted of statutory rape.

If you're still going to stay with him, I have a solution: Talk to your mom about birth control. Going on the pill will ease her mind and keep you from getting pregnant.

Remember, it's "first comes love, then comes marriage..." When planning a family, it's important to do things in the right order. :)

2006-11-28 21:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Your mom should call the cops and your boyfriend obviously is very inmature to be hanging around a child that cannot support herself and has no business having a child at such a young age. Do us all a favor and get an education and stay off welfare and the like so I dont have to help pay for YOUR child.

2006-11-28 14:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5 0

What business does a 23 year old man have being with a 15 year old girl? Obviously something is wrong with him if he cant get a woman his own age. First off yes your parents can have him arrested its called SATUTORY RAPE and he will also be a listed sex offender and will not be able to within a certain footage of anyone under the age of 18. Also if he is listed as a sex offender more then likley he will also have a hard time seeking employment who wants to hire a child molestor? You need to get away from the guy and if you were my daughter DAMN straight Id file charges on him to the fullest!!!!!!

2006-11-29 01:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by onehotmama 2 · 1 1

yes your mom can call the cops you are her responsibility till your 18 and they will put your boyfriend in jail what state do you live in mine is that way maybe you should check around and find out what rules your state has i was 16 with a 23 year old guy didn't get pregnant but my mom put him in jail i told the judge that i was willing to have sex with him but that didn't matter he didn't want to hear it better check around first that's the best advice i can give you good luck all these people who are saying your mom should call the cops are wrong age is just a number and older one's treat you better then the young punks does your mom know your dating him im so what does she think about it

2006-11-28 21:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

What is it with these "men" who want to get kids pregnant?
Dump him. He's trouble and your mother should get him for statutory rape. You have your whole life ahead of you. why on earth would you want to tie yourself down for the next 18 years...LONGER than you've been alive!? Don't do it. Babies are cute only when you can give them back to their parents. Its different when you are living in a hell hole with a screaming infant at 2 AM and BabyDaddy's nowhere to be found because he's found some new blood, and you have no food because (if you are lucky) you have a minimum wage job that a l m o s t pays the rent. He is doing it for the ego boost, not because he loves you, don't be fooled.

2006-11-28 14:16:59 · answer #11 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 4 0

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